Questioning his love

My boyfriend told me that when we started dating he was desperate for a girlfriend.I can't shake off the feeling that he is just with me bc he is needy for love and he doesn't actually love me.

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  • S0UNDS_WEIRD

    I wouldn't look too far into it.

    I've always been the kind of person that relationships just happened to. I never approached a stranger and just asked for her number or went on a dating site.

    Still, plenty of people do things like use dating sites. This is because they very much want a partner, enough that they're trying to speed up it happening, but it doesn't mean just anyone will do.

    I'm good at being single but I can very much imagine myself missing that sort of companionship and thinking, "Damn. I'd really like a new girlfriend."

    It wouldn't mean I'd just take up the next woman who was interested in me. By extension, I can imagine someone wanting it so bad that they felt desperate for the _right_ person to come along, but it still wouldn't mean they would settle for the wrong person.

    If you're even with this guy you probably really liked something about him, so chances are he liked you too. I think you're worrying about it too much. Be happy. Time will tell if something is amiss.

    Look at what he said as more like, "I was already wishing YOU would come along just before you magically entered my life."

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  • SkullsNRoses

    Nothing stinks like desperation, we can’t tell you if he actually likes you or is just lonely you have to follow your intuition here.

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  • 1WeirdGuy

    Probably both

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  • RoseIsabella

    Maybe... but maybe not?

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    • sillygirl77

      Ditto. I think it will show in time though which it is.

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      • RoseIsabella

        Indeed it will.

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