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My girlfriend is grossed out by my pubic hair, even got 'em trimmed but she craves a pornstar like tool! Now how can I get it all like a baby's bottom..??
Any solutions?
I have to say it. Men do that shit to women all the time. You have no ideaaa how many men have told me they think it's gross if a woman doesn't shave. If you prefer your girlfriend shave her area, you should probably just shave yours. You'll get some nasty ass red bumps, it'll hurt and be no fun at all. But hey, it's painful being beautiful. You could always wax to. It's longer lasting, looks better. Hurts like a goddamn bitch though.
I shave my junk on a semi regular basis now days. I like that it's neat and clean looking down there. Hair just gets in the way.
Ask her how she gets rid of her pubes. Maybe she could help you with yours.
If she has pubes then she is a hypocrite and should just get over it.
I really can't stand men with no pubic hair. Just looks way too strange to me.
Does she shave for you? just shave it. It's not a hard thing to accommodate, on the scale of things. At least she isn't asking for your legs or anywhere noticeable.
Legs and armpits are less easy than you'd like to believe, armpits especially are very sensitive and legs can be difficult to get to.
Does she shave her pubes?
Basically be really gentle and use lots of soap. Probably easiest while you're in the shower. Go slow until you get the hang of it.
Lots of guys shave, and even more women do. If you're dead-set against it then talk to her about it and make a compromise.
Shave.
Wax.
Epilate.
Age backwards through puberty.
One or several of them should do the trick. Or you could just tell her to get over it. It's kind of weird for her to be 'grossed out' by perfectly natural hair in a perfectly natural place.
to be fair a large section of western men prefer the completely shaved look too. Of course, this extends to armpit and leg hair, not just pubic.
Oh I understand, there is an expectation from men and women for women to remove some of their body hair. But to be 'grossed out' by the hair is something else - like a phobic response. Irrational. That's what I think is weird.
Also, if a woman doesn't want to shave, then most of us would think it unreasonable for their partner to pressure her into shaving. Same goes for a man being pressured. But if the person is happy to accommodate then I don't see an issue.
True, grossed out isn't normal... but from what I've seen and heard the amount of guys who are okay with girls not shaving is quite low.
True, my experiences are limited to my section of the internet + personal life experiences, not everyone's, but I've heard comments such as "I still think armpit hair on a woman is more terrifying than chemical warfare" (legit facebook quote there), I've had guys refuse to go down on me because I was "too hairy" (he hadn't shaved at all), I have gotten glares at my legs from the moment my leg hairs were visible (I have dark hair, so from about 10 I had to shave my legs to avoid visual persecution) and I've heard "any legitimate healthcare professional will tell you that pubic hair is a breeding ground for diseases and it's far more hygenic to shave them off" (but with much worse spelling)
If she's shaving for him though he should probably just shave for her, it's not that big of a deal.
I tried shaving before to stop the hair from getting stuck in my belt loop. You could shave it but every-time I tried it leaves red bumps and its really painful. So I believe the people in the pornos probobly get it waxed. I also see why you would be nervous having something sharp running across such a sensitive area. It might just be the fact I buy cheap razors though.