I've been single my whole life and you can definitely have a fulfilling life still. It may not be entirely the same but if you're feeling lonely consider getting a pet (of course one you can take good care of). If you can have human friends that aren't toxic you should. If its for sex then you can just masturbate and don't obsess over whether real sex would be better. Make sure you have hobbies and goals unrelated to relationships/sex.
And for increasing your chances: remember if you turn to hate on the gender you cant have sex with, or think you are entitled to it, thats gonna ruin your chances for sure and with good reason. Making sure your hygiene is good is a bare minimum, and getting in shape can help (but not strictly needed). You will need to actually meet people in order for something to happen (that may get easier when the whole covid thing calms down). Im not an expert of the social aspect but I can tell the first step is to see the other person as a person you actually want to know and care about (as opposed to an "object"), and generally not be an asshole. Having charisma helps but I cant tell you how to build that.
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I've been single my whole life and you can definitely have a fulfilling life still. It may not be entirely the same but if you're feeling lonely consider getting a pet (of course one you can take good care of). If you can have human friends that aren't toxic you should. If its for sex then you can just masturbate and don't obsess over whether real sex would be better. Make sure you have hobbies and goals unrelated to relationships/sex.
And for increasing your chances: remember if you turn to hate on the gender you cant have sex with, or think you are entitled to it, thats gonna ruin your chances for sure and with good reason. Making sure your hygiene is good is a bare minimum, and getting in shape can help (but not strictly needed). You will need to actually meet people in order for something to happen (that may get easier when the whole covid thing calms down). Im not an expert of the social aspect but I can tell the first step is to see the other person as a person you actually want to know and care about (as opposed to an "object"), and generally not be an asshole. Having charisma helps but I cant tell you how to build that.