Problem with gf's ex iin?

I've been dating a very hot blonde for about 3 weeks. We've been fucking for the past two. The problem? I find out that her old boyfriend is a black guy. This has put a damper on our relationship. I'm not so hot to trot for her anymore. I don't hate black people, I really don't. But being white, I got this thing about fucking a white woman who has fucked black guys. Am I racist? Fuck no! Then why do I feel like one? Is this racist attitude of mine normal? Help me out here people. What the fuck is my problem? Anybody out there have to deal with this before? I really dig this woman. But I can't seem to get over this road block. Help!

Voting Results
33% Normal
Based on 15 votes (5 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 10 )
  • dirtybirdy

    Someone's got a wee willy ;)

    Comment Hidden ( show )
      -
    • dirdybirty

      Wee Willy Wanka.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
  • VinnyB

    I find people with this issue buy in to the black penis size stereotype and fear they don't measure up.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • RoseIsabella

    You sound insecure.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • NeofelisNebulosa

    That's kind of weird.... Although I guess it's like how some lesbians don't like lesbians who aren't "gold star" lesbians (ones who have never slept with a man). Still, I think it does reflect some sort of subconscious racism or insecurity on your part. And it would make your girlfriend feel bad to know that you are judging her based on the skin color of someone she previously dated.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • I kind of have the same issue, but with girls that are eiter bisexual or experimented with the same sex. No idea why. I get on with them like I would anyone else but I just can't feel sexual attraction to them. It's weird.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • deshikd

    This is definitely racist.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!

    Just date someone else. Its your life not ours.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Gspyder

    I always think it's odd when people judge their partners for who they were with before. It's like they were somehow supposed to be devoted to your and cater to your will before you were even a part of their life. She was and still is free to date whatever guy she feels like, it just happens to be you right now.

    On topic: Yes, it is a racist thing to think about.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • thegypsysailor

    "Am I racist? Fuck no!" rotflmao, ha, ha, ha, ho, ho, ho, ha, ha, ha, ho, ho, ho, ha, ha, ha, ho, ho, ho, ha, ha, ha, ho, ho, ho, ha, ha, ha, ho, ho, ho, ha, ha, ha, ho, ho, ho, ha, ha, ha, ho, ho, ho, ha, ha, ha, ho, ho, ho, ha, ha, ha, ho, ho, ho, ha, ha, ha, ho, ho, ho, ha, ha, ha, ho, ho, ho, ha, ha, ha, ho, ho, ho. Ha!

    Comment Hidden ( show )