Pretty! but, no boyfriend!

I am currently 19, turning 20 October 2010. Every one around me - girls and guys all say I am very attractive, pretty, and cute....however, I don't have boyfriend, and I don't think I have bad personality, since people like to hang out with me. I only had one and the only one boyfriend when I was an 8th gradenr == Can anyone one kinda know what's wrong? Guys please help me! Why?? Thx :D

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  • AnantaX

    lol, I'm a guy and I have the saaaammmmmee problem, though for me it isn't a problem because I've decided I'm not cut out for relationships after my first one.

    I'm alllwwwaaayys told I should be dique "a model" and that I have so much potential and that I'm so fun and funny to be around (though I don't agree with any of that, just because), yet, I don't see anyone attempting to start a relationship with me. And no, I don't show and express that I have low self-esteem in that manner in front of people, but I don't know, it just doesn't happen.

    I think you, like others have said, that you are just giving off a "friend" vibe. I doubt that kind of because I am accidentally flirty apparently, yet no one approaches me in that way. So I don't know if you're flirty or not, but yeah. Try changing your vibrations and change it from "friend" to "superfriend" or something. If not, then maybe we're just cursed.. OR.. Or. Maybe we're just too god damn sexy.

    Do you do anything that could possibly off-set someone? Maybe you just don't have enough initiative and don't flirt enough. Maybe you don't show that you want to be in a relationship. There's those little things that could affect it, which might be my problem too. Try things out and experiment. I'm sure you'll find someone. ;D

    Wow I type too much.

    I want to roll around on the floor. I love doing that. I recorded a video of me doing it. :D

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  • heeraklee

    first of all, whats ur phone number?

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  • imacomputer

    YOU gotta send out the vibes. GIRLS, not guys make the first move. I'm a dude and I've had some pretty good luck with girls, but I only put the moves on the chicks that I knew were interested. I'm not gonna waste my time and risk getting my ego bruised on some chick that seemed totally UN-interested.

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  • KayemH

    Do you put yourself in a lot of situations to where you can meet new people? Some guys are intimidated by girls who look good... Maybe you should take the initiative and talk to a guy you might find interesting or ask someone you like on a date... there's no harm in trying! && not everyone looks for a significant other just by there looks... personality places a big role... You'll find someone when the time is right.

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  • You prolly aren't confident enough about yourself.

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  • soccer2

    Maybe u gave off the "friend vibe". But u never know. There probably is a guy u know or don't know that likes u. Sometimes ugotta make the 1st move. Flirt smile talk get to know some of ur guy friends better. Be nice. Also don't act desperate. Ur still young enjoy it. But when u get a bf it should still be fun haha

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  • chaskins

    you sound sort of stuck up, and you give off an annoying vibe. maybe that's why?

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  • lewlew80

    R u sure ur pretty?

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    • EEBabe

      I can't judge myself right? Self judging is always biased, but I can tell that at least I am not ugly lol

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  • luicyyou

    This is normal maybe there intimadted by you??or are you really shy dont worry youll get one

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  • Well maybe people are intimidated by you , if I guy thinks he doesn't stand a chance because you are so "pretty and funny and have a great personality" there not gonna walk up to you and ask you out it's not your fault it's just a thing.plus why do they have to make the first move? Not everything in life is gonna land at your doorstep, ask a guy out :) instead of waiting on them

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  • HeyMyNameIsCeci

    Hey, it's okay, I know how you feel. I mean I'm younger than you and I still never had a boyfriend. I think the time will soon come for both of us, and if it doesn't we have to be patient, otherwise if were both desperate we really need to do something about this. But anyways, we shouldn't worry right now, were still young and beautiful :) you have nothing to worry about. As long as you're enjoying your life then everything should be fine. Just trust me on this one :)

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  • ManaX

    Maybe you hang out with guys who aren't good enough for you. I do, and it sucks because none of them are asking me out but I wouldn't want them to anyway.

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  • knotty_moe

    Fuck all of the advice and tips.

    I am a guy and in the exact situation at the same age I would just tell myself not to worry about it that I will find the right one when the time is right but my lack of relationships compared to all of my friends makes me question weather I'm doing something wrong.

    I guess when the time is right you will find that person but you have to make some moves and so do I...... Good luck.

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  • PBandG101

    Uggle buggle

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  • ~L~

    I'll be your boyfriend if you want ^_^.

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  • Maybe your too good looking ...Guys don't want to be turned down by you
    doubt it bcuz even a ugly fuck would attempt to ask you out

    maybe your rude & mean.............and ugly

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  • Comm0nSense

    why? maybe it's bc you're so pretty no one can be attracted to you without feeling ugly. or it's bc you're living in imaginary land

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  • CaramelChrissy

    It depends on how you talk to guys or hang out around them. You might seem like the type of girl who is labeled as "Just a friend."

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  • Proudfear

    are u annoying,or arogant?

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    • EEBabe

      no...I don't think so. Sigh

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