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As the title says. Pretending not to enjoy it as much as you really do, in order to make them try harder or spend more time pleasing you. For example, cunnilingus/anilingus for girls, or blowjobs if you are male.
That seems like a very passive way of getting what you want. Communication is way more effective. Tell them what you would like them to do or they won't know what to change. Being direct doesn't have to ruin the moment; talking together about what you like can be really sexy, *and* it helps you get what you want out of sex! :)