Pressure to do anal

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  • To the women saying that they would only do anal if the man let her peg him first, I suppose that is fair, providing that you actually go through with it if he does. The only problem I see with this scenario is that if a girl says this is the only way go get to her butt, she may purposefully and unfairly make it as painful for the guy as she can.

    Men don't necessarily WANT to cause a girl pain while having anal sex. We just like having our dicks in really tight places. So sue us.

    Anal sex can be extremely pleasurable for women, if done right. That's the key. There has to be plenty of lube, the girl needs to be relaxed and the guy needs to be gentle.

    A lot of women have this notion that anal sex is inherently a selfish act from the guy that is painful and disrespectful to to the girl. It doesn't have to be.

    Yes, women can choose to say no without any reasoning at all, and a guy shouldn't pressure her. That's all fine. My problem with the OP is that her solution was to literally shit the bed to make the problem go away? How is that an appropriate response to a guy wanting some adventurous sex? Like if someone asked her to drive them to the dentist and she didn't want to would she pretend to take them and then drive off a bridge and kill them instead? Like wtf?

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