Posting pic of me & female friend w/ caption "me & my gf"

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To clarify, we are merely friends, and I posted it on impulse twice, first after losing another friend and being anxious about our relation, fearing that I may lose her too. The other time was when I tried to publicly apologize to her, but she wouldn't accept it and I got angry. It has never happened to her before and along with other problems she can't handle the pressure so I'm blocked from all contact for now... I'm not sure if she'll forgive me but I'm wondering if this is normal.

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  • barstool
    6 years ago

    You're probably a very nice guy, but you will keep losing friends as long as you keep being so pushy and NEEDY.
    Stop it, for your own sake.

    Posting the caption was a weird thing to do and would make anybody uncomfortable. You do understand why, don't you? But don't dwell on it; everybody makes mistakes (sometimes more than once). Just don't do it again.
    So chill out and learn to give people some space. You're probably so anxious about losing friends that it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy, so try and wise up to what's going on.
    And don't push it with this girl; she obviously wants some space so let her have it. You may have lost a friend this time, but it's not the end of the world. There'll be others, just try and learn from it, that's all.
    And try and get off the whole "posting things in public that may embarrass yourself and other people" thing, it's a trainwreck.
    Good luck.

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  • paramore93
    6 years ago

    You can't say you think this was a good idea ..
    You're scared you'll lose her so you pretend she's your girlfriend, publicly, twice?

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    Lying about that kinda shit isn't normal... I mean do you even lift, brah?

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  • TheGreyGuy
    6 years ago

    First of all, take a deep breath and relax.
    It's not the end of the world. Just give her some time (about 3-4 weeks) and then apologize to her again. She would be feeling quite uncomfortable because of your actions but everything gets better with time.
    Don't rush these things and don't think about it too much.

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    • seldiora
      6 years ago

      hmmm... she says too many things happened and there's too much history. She wants to move on and she doesn't want a relation. Do you think it's over forever, or do you think it's worth it to try again in a few years?

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      • TheGreyGuy
        6 years ago

        If you truly want her to be your friend and feel that you can't live without her then you should try again after a few months or years but don't look needy because that would mess up everything again.

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  • MrDexter
    6 years ago

    Not normal to pretend you dating when you not

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  • Justmehere
    6 years ago

    Why would you do such a thing, especially if you like her? Makes no sense..

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  • BeautifulDreamer612
    6 years ago

    Do you have a crush on her?

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    • seldiora
      6 years ago

      I don't know. Feels completely different from my other crushes.

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      • BeautifulDreamer612
        6 years ago

        How so?

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        • seldiora
          6 years ago

          I wasn't super anxious about her or heart fluttering until I lost my other friend, then I got really worried

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          • BeautifulDreamer612
            6 years ago

            Just explain to her how you felt

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            • seldiora
              6 years ago

              I did... but she had said her anxiety was spiking and she couldn't handle the relation anymore.

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  • Boojum
    6 years ago

    She was right to block someone who called himself her friend, then acted like a dick.

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    • seldiora
      6 years ago

      what do you recommend I do? Will I ever be forgotten?

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  • Ellenna
    6 years ago

    Are you the same person who posted about having harrassed someone online? The giveaway is the way you keep using the word "relation" to mean RELATIONSHIP.

    Stop hassling other people and take a long hard look at yourself and then get some therapy.

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  • EnglishLad
    6 years ago

    How about asking girls you like to date you, and if they say "yes", then post pictures like that. That's what normal people do.

    Also, word about negative behaviour gets around fast, so unless you live in a city or large town, I suggest that you move somewhere where no-one knows you and start over.

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