Post twenties and still no action... what to expect?

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Question. Suppose you were in your 30s and have had little to no experience with the opposite sex. Eventually it WILL happen, to find someone you connect with, surely. But what I would like opinions on is that, since being older(ish) with no experince, I would worry that anyone you would meet who might be a potential future partner/gf-bf might 'freak out' a bit when they find out you're inadequit and lacking in experience and thus run the other way. Any thoughts? Would be much appreciated!

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago | pl

    You are supposing too much and doing too little. And it is catching up on you because now you supposing being rejected for having done too little!

    Look - you have to DO things to meet people, mingle, get to know them, them you ... experience from acting & doing will give you the confidence and opportunities you need.

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    • JJBlood666
      14 years ago | pl

      Thanks for the comments. I agree. Socializing has never been my strong point, but I do work with the public, so I've gotten better about that. But I still perceive that the general reaction to someone who lacks experience is looked up as immature or something. I'm not THAT hung up on it, but it does linger in the back of my mind. But then again, I've been working on it and have come to be a little better with it.

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  • sineadtwiggy
    14 years ago | pl

    most normal people wont be freaked out by this at all, maybe a bit non believing but not in a nasty way, just aim at meeting more of the opposite sex maybe? and actually talking to them maybe? you'll be fine when you meet someone nice :)

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    • JJBlood666
      14 years ago | pl

      Thanks for the helpful/positive remarks. I'm new to this site but I'm really liking it so far. A good place for some down to earth talks.

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  • Stifler
    9 years ago | pl

    Go to a bar, Get a life, Go outside rather than online. These are what got me engaged with a kid coming in four months.

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  • TheGuruOfTheSauce
    14 years ago | pl

    practice makes perfect, don't tell them till after. You know after you're done crying and apologizing

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  • SillyKitty55
    13 years ago | pl

    i would be freaked out. i don't like any men that have 0 experience. i want my man to know what he is doing in bed.
    i'd run the other way if we met and you told me you never did anything with the opposite sex.i want a man with confidence, who thinks good of himself and not so down on himself all the time.
    you should go out mingle and when you hook up with the opposite sex don't tell them your not that experienced.just don't say anything. JUST DO!!

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    • SillyKitty55
      13 years ago | pl

      oh yea and for some darn reason girls are attracted to assholes. i don't know why. i have an asshole of a husband and i love him to death. i don't know why i just do!

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