The problem here isn't the porn or your husband, but how you feel about yourself.
You need to love yourself more. You recently spent hours in pain, a pain no man can ever come close to imagining, to bring a child into the world. Though done for eons, birth isn't easy. It changes a woman forever, and for the better. That strength, and the bravery to willingly enter into motherhood alone is beautiful, and I wish more people realize this. You're beautiful and always have been.
What you need to do is talk to your husband about how he feels about you, your body, and what you went through to give birth. It's time for him to show his support and empathy now more than ever.
As for the porn, it's just entertainment. Most of it isn't real, but just a bunch of pretty actors faking orgasms and acting out perverse fantasies. It's not real, don't every feel threaten by it.
Porn watching with your significant other?
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The problem here isn't the porn or your husband, but how you feel about yourself.
You need to love yourself more. You recently spent hours in pain, a pain no man can ever come close to imagining, to bring a child into the world. Though done for eons, birth isn't easy. It changes a woman forever, and for the better. That strength, and the bravery to willingly enter into motherhood alone is beautiful, and I wish more people realize this. You're beautiful and always have been.
What you need to do is talk to your husband about how he feels about you, your body, and what you went through to give birth. It's time for him to show his support and empathy now more than ever.
As for the porn, it's just entertainment. Most of it isn't real, but just a bunch of pretty actors faking orgasms and acting out perverse fantasies. It's not real, don't every feel threaten by it.