Porn watching with your significant other?

Tell your husband your feelings, have a good open talk together and then see how you feel about watching even a small amount to see how you respond.

You've been married long enough to have an 8 month old baby: PLEASE! The two of you need to learn to communicate with each other and if you can't learn that by yourselves, you need some couples counselling.

What's most important is how you feel here, dear heart. Your significant other should learn to respect and accept your feelings especially considering the fact that you just recently gave birth to his child! If he's insistent about this porn bullshit then he is of course a selfish bastard. Pornography is grossly overrated, and anyone regardless of sex, gender, or inclination who puts their own enjoyment of pornography above the feelings and emotions of a living breathing partner has a personal problems.

Do not do anything that that makes you uncomfortable!

The problem here isn't the porn or your husband, but how you feel about yourself.

You need to love yourself more. You recently spent hours in pain, a pain no man can ever come close to imagining, to bring a child into the world. Though done for eons, birth isn't easy. It changes a woman forever, and for the better. That strength, and the bravery to willingly enter into motherhood alone is beautiful, and I wish more people realize this. You're beautiful and always have been.

What you need to do is talk to your husband about how he feels about you, your body, and what you went through to give birth. It's time for him to show his support and empathy now more than ever.

As for the porn, it's just entertainment. Most of it isn't real, but just a bunch of pretty actors faking orgasms and acting out perverse fantasies. It's not real, don't every feel threaten by it.

I could never get my last girlfriend to watch it with me, unfortunately

When I suggested to my wife we watch porn before sex she was a bit reluctant she asked what kind of porn, was it full on showing everything, its hard core I said and convinced her to watch, we were watching lesbians, the out come was fantastic, we started to watch and within a few minutes she was playing with herself and me at the same time, we both stripped I was sat on a chair she was sat with my dick inside her, it was the best thing we ever did she is into porn more than me, we don't watch to often because we don't want to take the edge off it,
go for it

My husband and I watch porn on occasion, it normal. He watches more than I do but I do like it when I am in the mood for it.

havING a baby,job,home,etc......can be very overwhelming and porn can brake those thoughts of endless things to do,so watching porn can really help take your mind and stress off of those things, where as before the baby getting turned on was a lot easier

watching porn doesn't mean he is thinking about the porn girls,like for me it's the thought of her and I doing what they are and my first wife was against it and now with this one it's so hot that she wants to watch it wit me,even for me I need it to help get me in the mood,as a business owner I have a lot of stress and helps take them away
just try it....good luck

Ok, men always stare at women, get attracted and aroused by models or porn stars, I don't think it should weird you out that he will be jerking off to other women, or having sex with you while watching porn, but if it does, talk with your husband, tell him how you feel about this, let him explain why he wants to

Watching, fantasizing, talking about it.... It's all good for the marriage. But some woman don't like it. My girl is very hot and the only way I can do with her is talking while we are having sex and will fantasizing about have her sucking another cock while I fuck her. She has to have couple of glasses of wine in her head though. Otherwise she is completely off..

I watch porn with my girlfriend. It turns us both on and sets the mood. There's nothing wrong with it. When I watch porn by myself, I watch so I can imagine doing the same thing to my girlfriend that the woman in the video is having done to her. I don't care about the porn star, just the hot stuff they're doing in the vid. Sometimes I take ideas I learned from watching porn and use them in bed with her. Porn has more than one use. It can make your sex life even better if you use it right.

it's perfectly normal to watch porn with your husband, me and my husband watch it together regularly, there's nothing better than watching porn with someone else and just sitting there kissing until it's over, by that stage the pair of you will be so worked up that you'll struggle to make it to the bedroom.
if you're self conscious that your body isn't what it once was then do something about it, but if you don't care for diet and exercise then who cares if the girls in the porn movies are in better shape than you, you'll be the one with a much improved sex life irrespective of what you look like.

I would like it, but my wife feels the same as you. So now I watch it by myself, even though I prefer nudes to porn.

My girlfriend was the same,after finally convincing her,she got so wet and horny,she rode me hard like never before,now when we fuck its almost always with porn,win win,give it a try you never know.

You must be shit at sex if your BF / Husband wants you to watch it. I expect he'll be giving you a pad to take some notes on what they do.