It's not exactly "normal," but you're not alone. You need to relax - both mentally and physically. LOL. I was the same way when I was younger. In fact, I can probably count the times before the age of 20 that I had bowel movements in public places or friends' houses on one hand. It was so bad, that while a teenager visiting Switzerland, I was so embarrassed to poo in my host family's toilet that I ended up holding it for 4 days until finally I pooed in the forest behind their house. Talk about debilitating fear.
It finally happened that in university I fell in love and my boyfriend ended up moving in. Well, it's hard to time bowel movements in this situation. I was always so terrified of stinking up the bathroom or making huge, unladylike, trumpeting, farting noises I became constipated! But you know what? He wasn't embarrassed. If he was stinky he just sprayed the Lysol around and laughed if I joked about it. Just remember: Everyone has to poo and everyone's poo is stinky and can be loud. LOL! So I learned to relax about it and nothing bad ever happened.
A friend of mine has Crohn's disease. He suffers horrible gastric pains and has bowel movements ALL DAY AND NIGHT. About once an hour he has to excuse himself from whatever he's doing and poo. It doesn't matter where he is or who he's with. If he doesn't, he'll poo his pants! I think he has seen the inside of every bathroom stall on the East coast of America and continental Europe. Yeah. Be glad you're not that guy!
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It's not exactly "normal," but you're not alone. You need to relax - both mentally and physically. LOL. I was the same way when I was younger. In fact, I can probably count the times before the age of 20 that I had bowel movements in public places or friends' houses on one hand. It was so bad, that while a teenager visiting Switzerland, I was so embarrassed to poo in my host family's toilet that I ended up holding it for 4 days until finally I pooed in the forest behind their house. Talk about debilitating fear.
It finally happened that in university I fell in love and my boyfriend ended up moving in. Well, it's hard to time bowel movements in this situation. I was always so terrified of stinking up the bathroom or making huge, unladylike, trumpeting, farting noises I became constipated! But you know what? He wasn't embarrassed. If he was stinky he just sprayed the Lysol around and laughed if I joked about it. Just remember: Everyone has to poo and everyone's poo is stinky and can be loud. LOL! So I learned to relax about it and nothing bad ever happened.
A friend of mine has Crohn's disease. He suffers horrible gastric pains and has bowel movements ALL DAY AND NIGHT. About once an hour he has to excuse himself from whatever he's doing and poo. It doesn't matter where he is or who he's with. If he doesn't, he'll poo his pants! I think he has seen the inside of every bathroom stall on the East coast of America and continental Europe. Yeah. Be glad you're not that guy!