Good for you that you're willing to try, that's a big step and while i'm kind of sad that you choose to stay with your boyfriend, ultimately the choice is only yours to make. However i think that you'll find once you start loving yourself, treating yourself well, and put a little effort, your life will slowly fall into place. You'll be surprised to know that how bad things are now, that's how good they can get.
As for your boyfriend, change is not impossible but he has to admit that he is not being as good a person as he could be and until then, things will just remain the same. From experience guys like him, never really change, not until they address their own issues.
I think you'l find that when you start to find yourself, you'll see that you've outgrown him and leaving him will not be a difficult choice but one of necessity.
Trust me, i'm really happy that you're willing to try , just remember take it one step at a time, forget how your boyfriend make you feel and focus on how you can make yourself feel better.
Rooting harder girl = )xoxo
thank you! You were a big help. I hope everything will get better in the end. It was nice talking to somebody that cared. You gave good advice. Thanks! Im going to try my best and maybe your right maybe it wont be as hard anymore. I really do love him. Thank you again! Xoxo.
You know what, saw your profile, you're just too cute and really young too, more the reason to get your life on track. Glad to help, and i know it will work out for you. = )
plz help me i want to f*ckin die
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Good for you that you're willing to try, that's a big step and while i'm kind of sad that you choose to stay with your boyfriend, ultimately the choice is only yours to make. However i think that you'll find once you start loving yourself, treating yourself well, and put a little effort, your life will slowly fall into place. You'll be surprised to know that how bad things are now, that's how good they can get.
As for your boyfriend, change is not impossible but he has to admit that he is not being as good a person as he could be and until then, things will just remain the same. From experience guys like him, never really change, not until they address their own issues.
I think you'l find that when you start to find yourself, you'll see that you've outgrown him and leaving him will not be a difficult choice but one of necessity.
Trust me, i'm really happy that you're willing to try , just remember take it one step at a time, forget how your boyfriend make you feel and focus on how you can make yourself feel better.
Rooting harder girl = )xoxo
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thank you! You were a big help. I hope everything will get better in the end. It was nice talking to somebody that cared. You gave good advice. Thanks! Im going to try my best and maybe your right maybe it wont be as hard anymore. I really do love him. Thank you again! Xoxo.
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You know what, saw your profile, you're just too cute and really young too, more the reason to get your life on track. Glad to help, and i know it will work out for you. = )
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your from trinidad? Im from guyana btw. Your so nice! :)
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Thank you, yeah i'm a trini, i would post a pic but i'm so paranoid ; ).
thank you :) !