Idk I get it. I found it very freeing when I finally figured out my sexuality. It made it easier to not have to fumble and "I'm uh.. I'm straight but I like to look at people of other genders and will sleep with them too but I only fall in love with men so I'm straight..?" only to have people say "I had a bicurious phase too!" or "you had a sexy phase?" and end with me just sitting there, smiling, and screaming at them in my head "it wasn't/isn't a fucking phase!!!"
Figuring out my sexuality made me feel way less confused about myself and more confident. However, not everyone feels that way and not everyone should feel the need to stick a name on their sexuality. If people want to label their sexuality they will and, really, will figure it out on their own since none of us can speak for them.
PLEASE HELP: What sexuality am I?
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Idk I get it. I found it very freeing when I finally figured out my sexuality. It made it easier to not have to fumble and "I'm uh.. I'm straight but I like to look at people of other genders and will sleep with them too but I only fall in love with men so I'm straight..?" only to have people say "I had a bicurious phase too!" or "you had a sexy phase?" and end with me just sitting there, smiling, and screaming at them in my head "it wasn't/isn't a fucking phase!!!"
Figuring out my sexuality made me feel way less confused about myself and more confident. However, not everyone feels that way and not everyone should feel the need to stick a name on their sexuality. If people want to label their sexuality they will and, really, will figure it out on their own since none of us can speak for them.