Thank you, It is nice to feel like people want to help!
I'm quite scared about how my little sisters are going to end up, ella who is 7 already said to me
"I know mummy loves me, but i dont feel like it sometimes"
That kinda breaks my heart, which makes me feel worse about wanting out of this scenario. Thanks for the advice, i know it makes sense.
I completely understand. And I do think your little sisters need you, but I didn't realize they were so young. Ten years (or so) is an awfully long time to put your life on hold if your mother is unwilling to step up and be a mother. Then you have to wonder if she will end up in another toxic relationship again, which she seems to have an inclination to do. You are an extraordinary person for putting your sisters' wellbeing above your own, but it's bound to wear you down eventually. Perhaps Jan is right and you should seek some refuge, but you need to do it more strategically than simply running off. You need to ensure that your sisters are well looked after in your absense. You need to find some way to get your mother to step up and be a mother to these children she brought into this world. And I suppose their father doesn't want anything to do with them, or they want nothing to do with their father? That's probably best, as you said he was an abusive person. But is he supporting them in any way?
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Thank you, It is nice to feel like people want to help!
I'm quite scared about how my little sisters are going to end up, ella who is 7 already said to me
"I know mummy loves me, but i dont feel like it sometimes"
That kinda breaks my heart, which makes me feel worse about wanting out of this scenario. Thanks for the advice, i know it makes sense.
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I completely understand. And I do think your little sisters need you, but I didn't realize they were so young. Ten years (or so) is an awfully long time to put your life on hold if your mother is unwilling to step up and be a mother. Then you have to wonder if she will end up in another toxic relationship again, which she seems to have an inclination to do. You are an extraordinary person for putting your sisters' wellbeing above your own, but it's bound to wear you down eventually. Perhaps Jan is right and you should seek some refuge, but you need to do it more strategically than simply running off. You need to ensure that your sisters are well looked after in your absense. You need to find some way to get your mother to step up and be a mother to these children she brought into this world. And I suppose their father doesn't want anything to do with them, or they want nothing to do with their father? That's probably best, as you said he was an abusive person. But is he supporting them in any way?