This post actually made me tear up a little bit. Good for you for getting the hell out of there, I've been in a manipulative relationship like the one you've talked about and I understand how hard it is to break away. You'll still care about him for a while, and you may hate yourself for caring but don't. Human emotion is not a logical thing.
One of the worst things to come away with from these situations is guilt, and your family certainly didn't help. Let me tell you (as I'm sure many people will) it was NOT YOUR FAULT. People just like you and me are manipulated, used and abused every day, they are the victims of sick people. You didn't do anything wrong, he did, and he's the one who should feel guilty.
You can be strong. People are out there surviving this shit every day. It will be painful, but in the end you'll grow so much more from having suffered hardship. Just keep your head up, love yourself, and live a good life. Namaste.
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This post actually made me tear up a little bit. Good for you for getting the hell out of there, I've been in a manipulative relationship like the one you've talked about and I understand how hard it is to break away. You'll still care about him for a while, and you may hate yourself for caring but don't. Human emotion is not a logical thing.
One of the worst things to come away with from these situations is guilt, and your family certainly didn't help. Let me tell you (as I'm sure many people will) it was NOT YOUR FAULT. People just like you and me are manipulated, used and abused every day, they are the victims of sick people. You didn't do anything wrong, he did, and he's the one who should feel guilty.
You can be strong. People are out there surviving this shit every day. It will be painful, but in the end you'll grow so much more from having suffered hardship. Just keep your head up, love yourself, and live a good life. Namaste.