Presentation is not just a big thing in business.
How we present ourselves outwardly, when we go out and socialize DOES determine how others see us, and respond. At least for the initial greeting (being the most important interaction when meeting others)
Even the b/f in this very article states that his girl may have come to her limit before she may be seen as 'trashy' to others. A respectful and responsible point of view, that mainly shows maturity on his part.
Although instead of adhering to this trusted warning. An is it normal post was made to re-confirm that others may (or may not) feel the same. Thus disrespecting the b/f advice and undermining the respect he originally gave freely.
Go ahead and continue to destroy your body with piercings your niceness won't change, on the inside!
That's not anything near what you said at first ("Try meeting girls who are nicer and don't pierce their entire body"), so nice revision there. Your new version is much more digestible. Good job.
I'm not the kind of person that thinks other people's judgments should be tuned out, so I agree with your revision. But young people do crazy-stupid things - always have, always will. That phase is an inevitable part of life's trajectory for most. And when they feel ready to enter society and be taken seriously, they will do so however they wish. And they will abandon their crazy-stupid things.
So let them be content with the comparatively SAFE crazy-stupid things like piercings, when there is a multitude of much worse things they could be doing, and often do. Hard drugs, unsafe sex, and drunk driving do much more damage to your body than a couple scars.
piercings on girls?
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The amount of piercings you have or don't have, doesn't determine how nice you are. O-o
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Except to other people!
Presentation is not just a big thing in business.
How we present ourselves outwardly, when we go out and socialize DOES determine how others see us, and respond. At least for the initial greeting (being the most important interaction when meeting others)
Even the b/f in this very article states that his girl may have come to her limit before she may be seen as 'trashy' to others. A respectful and responsible point of view, that mainly shows maturity on his part.
Although instead of adhering to this trusted warning. An is it normal post was made to re-confirm that others may (or may not) feel the same. Thus disrespecting the b/f advice and undermining the respect he originally gave freely.
Go ahead and continue to destroy your body with piercings your niceness won't change, on the inside!
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Bull. shit.
That's not anything near what you said at first ("Try meeting girls who are nicer and don't pierce their entire body"), so nice revision there. Your new version is much more digestible. Good job.
I'm not the kind of person that thinks other people's judgments should be tuned out, so I agree with your revision. But young people do crazy-stupid things - always have, always will. That phase is an inevitable part of life's trajectory for most. And when they feel ready to enter society and be taken seriously, they will do so however they wish. And they will abandon their crazy-stupid things.
So let them be content with the comparatively SAFE crazy-stupid things like piercings, when there is a multitude of much worse things they could be doing, and often do. Hard drugs, unsafe sex, and drunk driving do much more damage to your body than a couple scars.