Pics from the ex

My boyfriend and I have been together for a couple months and I knew he was still friends with his ex and I'm fine with that. But recently I found out she has been sending him pics of herself. It's nothing sexual, its the cutesy staring up at the camera pics that 12 year old girls love to take(and she is in her 20's). I dont think its appropriate for her to be sending them, but he thinks im over reacting and jealous when i ask him to ask her to stop sending them.

Is it normal for the guy's ex to send pictures of themselves to your boyfriend?

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Based on 75 votes (14 yes)
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Comments ( 21 )
  • betto81a

    Perhaps he doesn't realize the distress that these pictures are causing you.

    Why not have a guy friend of yours do something similar for you? If you think you don't have the guts to have him send you pics then maybe you shouldn't complain, but either way, when the moment comes to discuss the issue, both of you will have something in common and then you can either decide to stop the pic sessions or break it up... cause that's how shit happens and believe me it will get cutesier and sexier until he feels like he misses that body oh so much and decides to act on his fantasies

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  • leicestercam

    If I had pix of my ex my wife would kill me and I would not blame her 4 it

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  • ntn195

    Try a threesome

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    There is nothing wrong with a man being friends with a former ex.

    If nothing else, remember this.... No girl can steal a man who doesn't want to cheat.

    That means, if he's not a cheater, it's fine for him to associate with former girlfriends and maintain friendships.

    If he's not a cheater you know it won't go anywhere.

    And yes, this is something I practice as well.
    My bf is friends with some of his former loves. He talks to them on FB or email and sometimes even sends cute little friendship gifts.

    Does it matter? Nope. He is here with me. He gives me his love.
    That's all that matters.

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    • Accjrb

      now THAT is a woman in a relationship built on trust.

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  • Ms.Caffinated

    black girl voice- uh uh guuurrlll, dat bitch tryin ta take yo maaann!! lol but seriously, call her on the phone and tell her to fuck off, than tell him if he loves you, he'll change his number. Thats what i would do!

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  • psychobabble

    NOT COOL! I would drop kick him through the goal posts of life.

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  • Dawn

    Not normal he's cheating

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  • fox

    Nooooooooooo wayyyyyyyyyyyy everrrrrrr don't let him make you think it's ok. It is not. No way no how.

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  • this9guy

    they must stop

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  • MyDarkestHour_x

    ...He's probably cheating on you, hun.

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  • coulterb

    playa!!!

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  • Look: everyone agrees it is inappropriate - tell the guy to respect your feelings.

    If he doesn't knock it off I'd say he likes the attention she's giving him, and, how that upsets you. You don't need to escalate anything. That is a big enough deal.

    Thats because he doesn't respect you.

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  • hotchickie81

    I wouldn't like it if my man's ex sent him pictures of herself!!

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  • SureAsHell

    that ex of his is a biatch.

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  • one_green

    I think that anything that is upsetting to you, your boyfriend should stop, including not taking pics from his ex. If you have explained how this is upsetting to you and he still thinks it is okay, then he isn't being very sensitive to your feelings. I think you and he have a problem that is larger than these pics. You two need to work out being sensitive to each other's feelings. Do you really want to be with someone who keeps on accepting pics with an ex, knowing how you feel about it???

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  • Magicer

    it's not normal.

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  • Jen118584

    I think it's inappropriate and my boyfriend said you're not overreacting. It's just kind of irritating, you know? It's like, he's your boyfriend now and he doesn't need pictures of her now. Especially those annoying cutesy ones. If he won't ask her, contact her on Facebook or something and kindly tell her that it just makes you uncomfortable and you feel it's unnecessary.

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  • nothing2

    she might not think anything of it

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    • screamingtoast

      thats the weird part of it, he even told me she has been trying to get back together with him and he still thinks its fine that she is sending pics.

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  • hompsar

    Not at all.

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