Physical/emotional attraction to girls and a sexual attraction to guys

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Is it normal that I have a sexual/emotional attraction to girls, plus a sexual-only attraction to guys? I'm male and I can't picture a relationship with another dude, but I fantasize about sex with guys and girls, sometimes even shemales. Is this normal?
(Sorry about any misspellings or punctuation errors, I'm on an iPod and I'm not very good with the keyboard)

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Based on 115 votes (88 yes)
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  • zenji
    10 years ago

    You sweet boy, you're not lost, you're sad your elders don't understand and accept your sexuality. That's their problem, they are of their time. Don't take that too seriously, please. You're mature enough to humor them, to love them, and to live your life the way you see fit. keeping your lifestyle secret from them is not hypocritical either, its playing the situation for harmony. You're not a Larry CRaig, pretending to be straight, having gay sex, and condemning it at the same time. You have a right to make things as smooth as possible for your loved ones and yourself.

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    • intocrazystuff
      10 years ago

      Thank you... Your reply, everyone's reply... It means a lot. I'm just trying to figure things out... And trying to act indifferent when around my parents whilst they make gay jokes, and ridicule that the gay "filth" is allowed on television. It pisses me off to no end, but arguing or yelling at them won't change anything. Best to just leave them to themselves I suppose...

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  • hiimmonnie
    10 years ago

    Do whatever you feel inside youre heart. No offense to youre grandmother or father but they arent the ones that have to live youre life. You are, you will eventually make the best choice for youreself just be patient with everything. You dont have to tell them anything. Do whatever makes you happy.

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    • intocrazystuff
      10 years ago

      Thank you :)

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  • reneesmee
    10 years ago

    Sounds like you maybe bi, but don't worry about what others think and just be true to yourself.

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    • intocrazystuff
      10 years ago

      Okay, thank you for the support :)

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  • tripw7
    10 years ago

    This is normal. You will wonder if you are gay but be straight. All of this is very normal. Don't worry, just
    don't do anything with either sex and you will sort it out. You are just excited about all sex at the moment. You will be fine. k?

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    • intocrazystuff
      10 years ago

      Thanks for your support... But the thing is, I have done things with both sexes, and it hasn't made it any easier, yet nor has it made it harder... Just feels like its more "cemented" in, for lack of a better term.

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  • hiimmonnie
    10 years ago

    Sounds like you should be bi-sexual but thats just my opinion.

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    • intocrazystuff
      10 years ago

      Well that's how I feel... Honestly I'm just not sure what to do. Very conservative father and grandmother, so I can't tell them any of this... I suppose I'm just lost.

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  • barebackbottomboi
    10 years ago

    I am gay but alot of guys are bi. Todsy more guys are having sex with each other but have a lady as well.sexually there is so much more.go have fun.

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  • iluvboth
    10 years ago

    I love women and I love sex with women. I do not love men ,but I love sucking dicks. so if I was looking for a label for myself I would say that I am bisexual. I do not think that being bisexual means my attractions are 50/50. sometimes I feel 90 percent gay and sometimes I feel 90 percent straight. I try not to overthink it. and I have no clue as to why I love sucking dick. go where your heart guides you, do not condemn yourself, and try not to hurt other people with your choices and actions. keep your private life private to avoid condemnation and conflicts with others.

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  • YourMomSaysHello
    10 years ago

    Did your parents abuse you?

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    • intocrazystuff
      10 years ago

      No, they did not.

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