I would find it strange...mostly because I will wonder who the flower girl and ring bearer will be.
I have to bring my daughter to the wedding in may ...she is tye flower girl =P
I have never heard of a no kid wedding...and havent seen or been to one that kids destroyed.
As far as I'm concerned, it doesn't have to be a kid throwing flowers and it doesn't have to be a kid bringing the ring to the bride/groom. Weddings are adult functions, and I don't think kids need to be involved unless the parents are the couple being married.
Well I guess it all depends on how traditional you want your wedding. ..but I don't think if you not going to have children you should just leave the things out... flower girls are a symbol of youth and fertility for the couple sooooo might be a bit strange to have anyone but a young child.
I'm traditional until I imagine 20+ screaming, crying, trouble making kids at my future wedding. Not sitting still during the ceremony, making a noise, and then not letting their parents, our family/friends sit down and relax for one second because they have to run after their child everywhere. I will also be catering for everyone and will certainly not be paying for everyone we know to have all their many kids fed, too. Weddings don't exactly come cheap. Another thing is that adults drink at weddings, and I think its incredibly irresponsible to bring your child to a function where you're not going to be coherent enough to look after them. Traditional weddings also include a priest, and I am in no way religious at all so breaking the tradition alittle to make one's special day a lot more convenient and enjoyable doesn't seem like a crime to me.
Dear lord how many people will be at your wedding. I think tops there will be anywhere from 4-10 children (people under 16)at my moms wedding. And why is everyone at your wedding getting wasted? Adults also drink at cookouts and kids are there too. Parents might have a glass or two but they have to get home so...
Its not a crime and honestly its the brides day so however they want to have the wedding...I just think you're picturing the inside of Chucky cheese instead of well dressed kids sitting at a kids table.
I'm not literally engaged and planning a wedding here, its just something that came to mind. Obviously whoever you know has a lot less kids in their family than I do, it happens. Every single family function I go to I see kids running around screaming and throwing tantrums and its not something I want to deal with one day when I do get married. And yes, adults drink at cook outs and what not but it doesn't make it any less irresponsible. I would be ashamed of myself as a parent if I could not provide my child with a sober adult to look after them for one damn evening while I go out and enjoy myself as an adult. People who think their kids need to be glued to their hip and become everyone else's problem seriously have issues.
Well im talking about a beer or two doesnt bother me if I see it...personally I hardly ever drink so I wouldn't be drinking at all and my bf doesnt drink at all since he doesnt like the taste lol.
I never said anything about glued to hip lol...I dont think its good to have them attached to you at all times ether.
My family there is a lot less kids...im the only one of my 3 siblings that has a kid. And the kids are well behaved...as much as kids can be... they can get loud but if you tell them to sit down be quite they do.
You know for an idea if someone didnt want kids at the wedding but wanted the flower girl you could have an age limit like only kids 16 and above except for the flower girl...Parents and older kids can look after the one small one.
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I would find it strange...mostly because I will wonder who the flower girl and ring bearer will be.
I have to bring my daughter to the wedding in may ...she is tye flower girl =P
I have never heard of a no kid wedding...and havent seen or been to one that kids destroyed.
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As far as I'm concerned, it doesn't have to be a kid throwing flowers and it doesn't have to be a kid bringing the ring to the bride/groom. Weddings are adult functions, and I don't think kids need to be involved unless the parents are the couple being married.
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Well I guess it all depends on how traditional you want your wedding. ..but I don't think if you not going to have children you should just leave the things out... flower girls are a symbol of youth and fertility for the couple sooooo might be a bit strange to have anyone but a young child.
Also weddings are family/friend functions.
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I'm traditional until I imagine 20+ screaming, crying, trouble making kids at my future wedding. Not sitting still during the ceremony, making a noise, and then not letting their parents, our family/friends sit down and relax for one second because they have to run after their child everywhere. I will also be catering for everyone and will certainly not be paying for everyone we know to have all their many kids fed, too. Weddings don't exactly come cheap. Another thing is that adults drink at weddings, and I think its incredibly irresponsible to bring your child to a function where you're not going to be coherent enough to look after them. Traditional weddings also include a priest, and I am in no way religious at all so breaking the tradition alittle to make one's special day a lot more convenient and enjoyable doesn't seem like a crime to me.
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Dear lord how many people will be at your wedding. I think tops there will be anywhere from 4-10 children (people under 16)at my moms wedding. And why is everyone at your wedding getting wasted? Adults also drink at cookouts and kids are there too. Parents might have a glass or two but they have to get home so...
Its not a crime and honestly its the brides day so however they want to have the wedding...I just think you're picturing the inside of Chucky cheese instead of well dressed kids sitting at a kids table.
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I'm not literally engaged and planning a wedding here, its just something that came to mind. Obviously whoever you know has a lot less kids in their family than I do, it happens. Every single family function I go to I see kids running around screaming and throwing tantrums and its not something I want to deal with one day when I do get married. And yes, adults drink at cook outs and what not but it doesn't make it any less irresponsible. I would be ashamed of myself as a parent if I could not provide my child with a sober adult to look after them for one damn evening while I go out and enjoy myself as an adult. People who think their kids need to be glued to their hip and become everyone else's problem seriously have issues.
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Well im talking about a beer or two doesnt bother me if I see it...personally I hardly ever drink so I wouldn't be drinking at all and my bf doesnt drink at all since he doesnt like the taste lol.
I never said anything about glued to hip lol...I dont think its good to have them attached to you at all times ether.
My family there is a lot less kids...im the only one of my 3 siblings that has a kid. And the kids are well behaved...as much as kids can be... they can get loud but if you tell them to sit down be quite they do.
You know for an idea if someone didnt want kids at the wedding but wanted the flower girl you could have an age limit like only kids 16 and above except for the flower girl...Parents and older kids can look after the one small one.