I commented on a similar post to this a while ago. And I will try to kind of say this in a nutshell. It's really pretty normal to feel that way even at 21. I know that everyone makes it seem like you're supposed to have had like 5+ relationships/sex partners by the time you're like 19, but that's really not the case for a lot of people... and that's not always the best thing anyways.
I mean if you are really looking for someone, then like people said above, you might have to show some interest. Doesn't mean you have to like throw yourself at them... but maybe make some conversation or make some eye contact. Many guys especially at this age will not hesitate to take interest if they think you might be a little interested in them. BUT... I also don't think there is really any need for you to "pursue" right now. There is also nothing wrong with kind of just seeing what/who comes your way in life.
It's normal that you feel that way... you're not alone... and I think just not focusing on it for a while will help (Easier said than done.)
People tell me that i'm pretty but don't have a boyfriend at 21?
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I commented on a similar post to this a while ago. And I will try to kind of say this in a nutshell. It's really pretty normal to feel that way even at 21. I know that everyone makes it seem like you're supposed to have had like 5+ relationships/sex partners by the time you're like 19, but that's really not the case for a lot of people... and that's not always the best thing anyways.
I mean if you are really looking for someone, then like people said above, you might have to show some interest. Doesn't mean you have to like throw yourself at them... but maybe make some conversation or make some eye contact. Many guys especially at this age will not hesitate to take interest if they think you might be a little interested in them. BUT... I also don't think there is really any need for you to "pursue" right now. There is also nothing wrong with kind of just seeing what/who comes your way in life.
It's normal that you feel that way... you're not alone... and I think just not focusing on it for a while will help (Easier said than done.)