People please is it normal or just my destiny?

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Just the other day, I was rebiulding my relationship with an ex soon to be father of my baby. Now few days earlier he cut off communication, guess what?! There's someone else, this new girl just changed everything.the dude is back to insults he calls me names and texted that he only loves her not me. After him apologizing and trying to make it up to me. This new chick clearly doesn't want him anywhere near me,she even insults my unborn baby already, I called the guy he said if he was interested in me or the baby, I would know.. should I just accept that it's my god given destiny to be a single mom I personally dont believe this situation is normal.. Is my destiny or its just normal that he will never genuinely change??

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  • Alittlemessedup
    7 years ago

    People never change, I learnt that the hard way. As hard as it'll be, you need to move on from him and give that innocent baby a fantastic life, away from somebody who treats you bad.

    If your child grows up and see their daddy bad mouthing their mum, they'll think that's normal. And pass it down to their generation, and the cycle never stops. I've experienced this.

    Do the right thing. But your baby first

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  • wigz
    7 years ago

    Abortion? Adoption? Forget this guy and get your shit together.

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    7 years ago

    It's not your destiny. You can eventually find someone else. It's good that you're not together with him. I grew up with kids who were raised in environments where one of their parents did not respect the other and now as adults they're all either in/out of jail or have problems with anxiety and suicide. Most of their problems could've been prevented had they been raised in a good family setting.

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  • Keepsake
    7 years ago

    With a guy that fluctuates between relationships, you're better off raising your child yourself. You can have him help you in terms of finances and what the baby need.

    Generally speaking, patching things up with someone who does that kind of shit (insulting you, etc) isn't going to lead to a healthy relationship.

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    • cutegalsly
      7 years ago

      Say no more..

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  • Dreamprisoner
    7 years ago

    Its not your destiny to be a single mother, unless you carry on pining for this douche-bag. Cut him out of your life and find someone who respects you AND your child.

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  • [Old Memory]
    7 years ago

    its your destiny

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    • cutegalsly
      7 years ago

      I believe you.!

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