even if you spend time on foreplay, if you are very tight it can hurt if he enters you, but as it's built to adapt, after that, it becomes enjoyable.
If it was for a lack of lubrication, it would still hurt after he is in, so the best suggestion is that he be careful about entering you, or let you do the entering part. It's less "painful" if you get to control it, e.g. by sitting on him, taking a couple breaths and sliding down on him. By putting this motion in your control, you take out the surprise part for your body, which can help to easen it up somewhat. but if he is build above average and you are tighter than average, you probably won't get rid of the entering-pain completely when having normal sex.
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it is perfectly normal depending on your build.
even if you spend time on foreplay, if you are very tight it can hurt if he enters you, but as it's built to adapt, after that, it becomes enjoyable.
If it was for a lack of lubrication, it would still hurt after he is in, so the best suggestion is that he be careful about entering you, or let you do the entering part. It's less "painful" if you get to control it, e.g. by sitting on him, taking a couple breaths and sliding down on him. By putting this motion in your control, you take out the surprise part for your body, which can help to easen it up somewhat. but if he is build above average and you are tighter than average, you probably won't get rid of the entering-pain completely when having normal sex.