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I have pain being penetrated. It hurts to even use a finger, and I worry about it with every guy I date. Never attempted sex, but at this point I can't imagine that it would feel good.
Anyone else had this problem?
There's a fairly common condition called vaginismus or something similar where the vaginal muscles go into a sort of spasm and close up.
It would be a good idea to see a doctor about this, someone you already feel comfortable with. It beliave can be cured, but I wouldn't be trying sex until you've sorted it out.
I'm not sure about causes but I think sometimes it's a physical issue and sometimes emotional, say if the woman was sexually abused by penetration. And sometimes maybe a combination I guess
Good luck with it
Yeah this one girl I know always complains what I penetrate her
I don't even understand why I'm using a really small knife!
Bitches, what can you do?
1.You are not comfortable enough. There is a myth about "tight" and "loose" Vaginas. It is bullshit. When a girl in nervous or uncomfortable her vagina shows it by tensing up and being dry. When she is comfortable and turned on she is loose, wet and ready. When a woman is experienced she can be wet, ready and learn to tighten up, (Kegels ladies!). So just try to get comfortable, light some candles, find a nice porno, and make sure you are in a safe, comfortable environment where you won't be disturbed.
2.If pain or discomfort with penetration continues, consider talking with a health care provider immediately about what you are experiencing. S/he will be able to investigate any possible underlying causes for the pain.
God the word penetrate is hilarious.
As the others suggest see a professional and all the best with future penetration.