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I have a fetish for pain both giving and receiving or watching I have read up on sadomasochism so I understand what the fetish is.
So I at least I know I am not the only person in this world who has werid indulgences or hobbies.
I wondered is it something ones is born with or something that comes later on in life I am aware that it's not a social norm that most people are into and was just wondering?
BDSM is about power expressed via giving & receiving pain and/or humiliation, with or without sex.
Given that most of us grow up in families where adults have power over us and often abuse it, including sexually, it's not surprising this results in some of us seeking out similar situations in adult life.
There are comparatively healthy ways to express these desires, including being very careful who you play these games with, having safe words, using safe sex, not doing anything which results in permanent damage and not playing when drunk or drug affected.
Personally, when I was very in the BDSM scene many decades ago, I noticed far too many dominants who become control freaks because the power goes to their heads and far too many submissives who end up not being able to speak out about abuse.
What like emotional trauma or something a lot happened in my childhood but it's things I learned to get over.
It could be sub conscious but I kind of doubt it most problems I have in life I try to ignore or completely disregard.
But I will say that I do love emotional torment of myself and others at times it feels like I'm high from it and puts me in a good mood when the rush comes down.
Evil is when you kill someone evil is to force yourself on someone who dosent want it evil is committing horrid acts like genocide and the like.
I am not guilty of these things so how am I a being of pure evil.
I admit that I can be alittle morbid and my tastes come of as depraved but I wouldn't force myself on someone who dosent want it I would never kill anyone so how dose that make me evil?
Am I Werid yes emotionally disturbed maybe but evil I am far from it.
I like it when who ever I am with can be creative but I'll give a little hint.
I am very much into whipping or in some cases needles if you get what I mean by that or feeling jolts of electric shocks.
The list goes on but the more pain inducing for me and a willing person the better.