You must always remember that sex is 20%% physically and 80%% mentally. You just have to find your own turn-ons and act on them. For example, when you're having sex and you're constantly thinking 'Chair rock bus airplane corn grass', the chance you're getting off is practically zero. However, when the mood is right and you're really in to it, you'll come much faster. Try to concentrate a little more, but don't fixate on having an orgasm. An orgasm is an unvoluntary reflex, meaning you can't reach an orgasm on command. Try seeing an orgasm as a possibility and not as a must. Just let it come as it may.
Another cause could be that you masturbate too much for your own good. Sometimes your body (read: dick) goes in overdrive and you just can't orgasm anymore.
Do you experience the same problem when you masturbate?
orgasm problems durring sex
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You must always remember that sex is 20%% physically and 80%% mentally. You just have to find your own turn-ons and act on them. For example, when you're having sex and you're constantly thinking 'Chair rock bus airplane corn grass', the chance you're getting off is practically zero. However, when the mood is right and you're really in to it, you'll come much faster. Try to concentrate a little more, but don't fixate on having an orgasm. An orgasm is an unvoluntary reflex, meaning you can't reach an orgasm on command. Try seeing an orgasm as a possibility and not as a must. Just let it come as it may.
Another cause could be that you masturbate too much for your own good. Sometimes your body (read: dick) goes in overdrive and you just can't orgasm anymore.
Do you experience the same problem when you masturbate?
Hope this was usefull.