Orgasm problems durring sex

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okay, so i have this "problem" i have had sex with about a handful of different females. drunk sometimes, not drunk sometimes. 90%% of the time i cant get off at all. i get aroused very easily. and stay hard for a LONG time. i am pretty damn good in bed as i am always told. i have sex for HOURS and HOURS and just never get off. it sometimes even makes the chick mad or insecure. i do different positions, i usually go all out beating it up but try to go slow sometimes if it hurts them too bad. i have a theory that its all mental for me like i'm not comfortable with the person because if i have sex with the same girl a few times i start to get off normally. the only problem this causes for me is i feel sort of addicted to sex as i want it all the time and get a little snappy with people if i go without for a couple days. it doesn't really bother me too much that i don't get off because the girls usually have multiple orgasms and think i'm some kind of sex god because i go forever without getting off which boosts my confidence. on the other hand some think i am not attracted to them because i don't. anybody else have this problem??

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  • KsicjikUm
    14 years ago | pl

    My bf had this problem. Extagen helped him to be able to be able to get orgasms.

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  • Alwayscometogethernomatterwhat
    14 years ago | pl

    You must always remember that sex is 20%% physically and 80%% mentally. You just have to find your own turn-ons and act on them. For example, when you're having sex and you're constantly thinking 'Chair rock bus airplane corn grass', the chance you're getting off is practically zero. However, when the mood is right and you're really in to it, you'll come much faster. Try to concentrate a little more, but don't fixate on having an orgasm. An orgasm is an unvoluntary reflex, meaning you can't reach an orgasm on command. Try seeing an orgasm as a possibility and not as a must. Just let it come as it may.

    Another cause could be that you masturbate too much for your own good. Sometimes your body (read: dick) goes in overdrive and you just can't orgasm anymore.

    Do you experience the same problem when you masturbate?

    Hope this was usefull.

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