As a girl I do enjoy fore play. But recieving in that way does not appeal to me. Honesty, I wish it did! So many women out there exclaim its glory! For me it tickles and semi-hurts which makes me very uncomfortable. And I feel so bad when I have to redirect the moment to avoid that type of contact from happening; cause I really like him. I know that feeling of wanting to please someone your really into...and to be denyed doesn't feel good. I have tried...on several occasions....tried to relax myself, researched techniques, different guys haha...and I am so pissed that I feel nothing pleasurable. My X told me this after he admitted to cheating on me..."OH, and she actually enjoys it when a guy goes down on her. In fact, she has never had an orgasm until I went down on her. She loved it."
Is it a deal breaker if a girl that genuinely enjoys giving pleasure (because in all non-sexual aspects its better to give than recieve) to someone but physically uncomfortable recieving oral??
Oral sex: would you rather give or receive?
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As a girl I do enjoy fore play. But recieving in that way does not appeal to me. Honesty, I wish it did! So many women out there exclaim its glory! For me it tickles and semi-hurts which makes me very uncomfortable. And I feel so bad when I have to redirect the moment to avoid that type of contact from happening; cause I really like him. I know that feeling of wanting to please someone your really into...and to be denyed doesn't feel good. I have tried...on several occasions....tried to relax myself, researched techniques, different guys haha...and I am so pissed that I feel nothing pleasurable. My X told me this after he admitted to cheating on me..."OH, and she actually enjoys it when a guy goes down on her. In fact, she has never had an orgasm until I went down on her. She loved it."
Is it a deal breaker if a girl that genuinely enjoys giving pleasure (because in all non-sexual aspects its better to give than recieve) to someone but physically uncomfortable recieving oral??