Oral sex- still virgin or not?

I personally think when you have vaginal or anal sex, thats when you lose your virginity. When I think of getting laid or getting f**ked, I think of those two. I never thought of oral sex as that, and thats why I still considered myself a virgin after giving oral. Vaginal sex has always taken the traditional definition of virginity, however to me, anal sex is the same thing but in different holes. In fact a lot of people would say having anal sex is one step further from having vaginal sex as I have friends who aren't virgins but haven't had anal sex. In any case, everyone has their own definitions of what virginity is. One thing everyone can agree on, however, is that if you do any of those 3 acts, it DOES make you sexually active as they are all sexual activities and all transmit STDs. And regardless of whether you think the act takes away your 'virginity', it is still a huge step to take as you are no longer sexually innocent. So just make sure you are making the right decisions for yourself!

For those of you who are saying oral doesn't count....... are you saying you wouldn't be pissed if your partner had oral with someone else? Cos if you would, that means you accept it IS sex after all.

Unless you're Bill Clinton LOLLOLOLOLOL!

Technically, only vaginal intercourse breaks "virginity", but i don't see the option i would have preferred to choose:
Namely that you stop being a virgin when you have "penetrative intercourse".
Heavy petting, fine, handjobs, fine, even a blowjob, fine.

But "cheating" by having anal sex instead of vaginal? Still "breaks" virgin-ship in my book. The moment you are being "fucked", no matter wether vagina or anus, is when you end being a virgin in my eyes, despite the hymen/vagina technicalities.

Oral sex and virginity. What the fuck? Last I looked technical loss of virginity involves breaking through the hymen with the penis. Not putting a cock in your mouth.

Also you can break haymem many ways not just the jerbal

I'm a virjin but can't have sex yet I'm only 12 I want to be 15-18 and any counts as long as I get laid

That's a difficult one.

For some, breaking the hymen = losing virginity. But many girls have had that broken by tampons, gymnastics, all sorts of reasons. They are still virgins though.

Others think that virginity is a state of mental purity and innocence. So, if you are sucking dick all day and taking anal, it would be hard to see you as a virgin, even if your vagina has been left untouched.

The question is can a whore (anal/oral with hundreds of guys but no vaginal penetration) still be a virgin?

I think perhaps you should concern yourself with what YOU feel it means to be a virgin, and not an arbitrary definition set by society. 'Virginity' is just an idea, after all.