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Is it normal to give oral to a man who doesn't shave his balls? This really sexy guy I know, we've been talking about hooking up. I really wanna give him oral! But he told me he just trims and doesn't shave. If I suck on his balls during the oral, won't I get hair in my mouth? I shave all my hair down there so I guess I've gotten used to the no pubes idea... Can I just fondle his balls instead of sucking on them?
I was never big on having my balls sucked anyway. Fondling is just as good as far as I'm concerned :P
Try and see if you like it. If you like it you like it, and if you don't you don't. I've given oral sex to girls with hair before and it wasn't a big deal for me. That's not to say you'll feel the same way, but a couple of hairs in your mouth is really nothing to be scared of and if you don't like it you don't have to do it again.
This is actually my first time giving a blowjob... Only ever had sex with women. Should I rub his dick with my hand while I'm sucking it or should I only use my mouth? I've been reading BJ tips online lol so I'm not totally clueless at least... But how fast should I go? I kinda wanna go slow... I would feel silly bobbing my head up and down fast like they do in some porn.
I think it's good to talk to him. Tell him that you've never done this before, and ask him what he likes. Don't be shy about it; communicating about sex is often a turn-on, so I'm sure he'll be happy to talk to you about it :) When you're actually doing it, you can also ask him if there's anything he wants you as you go.
Everyone likes something different, but slow is a safe bet. Faster isn't always better :P If decide you want to go fast, you can use your hand on the shaft and control the pace that way.
EDIT: Oh, and my top tip is to keep eye contact as much as possible. It's easy and it goes a long way ;P
Well he's gonna get his whole cock sucked, it doesnt have any hair... I bet he wouldnt like it if i had pubes (but I could be wrong). I just don't wanna have to suck on a ton of hair... He told me specifically he likes having his balls played with while receiving oral.