What is pointless about analyzing factors which may lead or contribute to difficulties in someone's sex life? You mentioned 2 factors which may play a role in this regard (self esteem and body issues). I agreed with you that they might be relevant and added that there is also a third important one (sexual issues). It is not a circular statement at all because by "sexual issues" I didn't mean the original problem with cunnilingus. Sexual issues is a much broader term which includes for example commonly held belief of many people in our society that genitals are "dirty parts" of human body which serve for urinating and hence are seen as gross. If someone is raised among people with such views of genitals, she or he may have problematic attitude to genitals as an adult in her or his sex life. This is just one example of what I mean by "sexual issues". If you still think that I just made "pointlessly circular statement on the matter", I don't mind giving you other examples.
BTW, you blame people here of personally attacking other users but you doesn't seem to notice that you are becoming more and more rude yourself - I mean, your reply to my previous comment above "Thank you for your pointlessly circular statement on the matter" doesn't seem to me as a kind or at least a polite reply to my effort to analyze the problem.
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What is pointless about analyzing factors which may lead or contribute to difficulties in someone's sex life? You mentioned 2 factors which may play a role in this regard (self esteem and body issues). I agreed with you that they might be relevant and added that there is also a third important one (sexual issues). It is not a circular statement at all because by "sexual issues" I didn't mean the original problem with cunnilingus. Sexual issues is a much broader term which includes for example commonly held belief of many people in our society that genitals are "dirty parts" of human body which serve for urinating and hence are seen as gross. If someone is raised among people with such views of genitals, she or he may have problematic attitude to genitals as an adult in her or his sex life. This is just one example of what I mean by "sexual issues". If you still think that I just made "pointlessly circular statement on the matter", I don't mind giving you other examples.
BTW, you blame people here of personally attacking other users but you doesn't seem to notice that you are becoming more and more rude yourself - I mean, your reply to my previous comment above "Thank you for your pointlessly circular statement on the matter" doesn't seem to me as a kind or at least a polite reply to my effort to analyze the problem.