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Okay, so i can only make a relationship last three days, because when im with the guy i really like him then i get a really crappy feeling in my stomach and it doesn't go away until i break up with him, but i end up feeling sad because i still like the guy. Is this normal? and if it isn't i need some advice to get over this crappy feeling.
Im assuming you are really young. It mat because u r insecure n not used to it. You need to break out of that perhaps ignore the feeling.
I wanted to see if things had gotten any better for you or if you had gained any insight into why you felt this way.
I know that feeling, and don't worry it's normal: the "going out with someone" is getting one step more serious, and nobody wants to get hurt, that's why it makes you nervous. At that time you have to get to know/trust the person better, and sometimes it can last a few weeks, but eventually after some time, the uncomfortable feeling goes away and you can start to fully enjoy being with the someone. You just have to go over the feeling. Also remember that your other is probably going through the same thing ;)
Good luck xoxo
I think stealinsugars has a point. I am kinda the same way but it's usually always around 2 months for me..
I have this too but I don't think it's normal, i'm seeing a therapist because I am a commitment phobe. You should ask for help or explain to the guy that you are with what you are going thru
Perhaps it's anxiety you are feeling. Do you feel pressured when you start a relationship? By that I mean do you start worrying if the relationship will work or if he'll be freaked out by some quirk you think you have, or you start thinking about where the relationship is going?
That use to happen to me all the time. but now i have been with my boyfriend for over 6 months. i think that when you find the right guy this wont happen anymore. at least thats how it worked out for me. :)
Well what kind of feeling is it? Crappy doesnt explain enough. Is it sad? Scared?Lonely? Nervous? Etc.....what?