Incompatible sex drives can cause real problems. Clearly your guy is very turned on by you -- but you seem to be less than interested in him. Maybe you're looking for more academic or emotional connection with this guy before you "pony up the goods". I have a feeling this guy would do anything for you but he's too horny to get those feelings across. Maybe he needs to be more romantic and less obvious. It wouldn't hurt if you were more passionate as well. Until you both compromise a little, you're only going to get more bitter and resent his moves and he's going to start thinking of moving on to a more attainable woman. Remember every time you tell him NO is like constantly kicking his self esteem. Who needs that kind of rejection day after day?
At any rate you need to both list the things you need from each other and see if you can come together somehow.
Only thing boyfriend wants to do is make out, and always has erection?
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Incompatible sex drives can cause real problems. Clearly your guy is very turned on by you -- but you seem to be less than interested in him. Maybe you're looking for more academic or emotional connection with this guy before you "pony up the goods". I have a feeling this guy would do anything for you but he's too horny to get those feelings across. Maybe he needs to be more romantic and less obvious. It wouldn't hurt if you were more passionate as well. Until you both compromise a little, you're only going to get more bitter and resent his moves and he's going to start thinking of moving on to a more attainable woman. Remember every time you tell him NO is like constantly kicking his self esteem. Who needs that kind of rejection day after day?
At any rate you need to both list the things you need from each other and see if you can come together somehow.