It's possible you and he may have entirely different levels of sex drive. This is something NOT to ignore. Another possibility is that sometimes a partner is turned off by sex if they feel something is not quite right -- or they resent something about their partner or are concerned about something. Is he unemployed? Drink too much? Flirt with others? The guy is genuinely attracted to you. Have a talk with him away from the bedroom. It sounds like you need more interest from him about YOU besides sex. Or maybe he doesn't turn your key sexually.
This shouldn't be so much work.
Keep him informed about your thoughts and feelings. And maybe try cuddling, and have a couple days during the week YOU control the sensual activity. You may think some of your emotions and reactions are really obvious but really, they may not be to your guy. Many of us guys remain clueless and then are totally devastated if the woman gets exasperated and leaves. Talk to him again and again. I think we're too horny to hear and think at the same time.
Only thing boyfriend wants to do is make out, and always has erection?
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It's possible you and he may have entirely different levels of sex drive. This is something NOT to ignore. Another possibility is that sometimes a partner is turned off by sex if they feel something is not quite right -- or they resent something about their partner or are concerned about something. Is he unemployed? Drink too much? Flirt with others? The guy is genuinely attracted to you. Have a talk with him away from the bedroom. It sounds like you need more interest from him about YOU besides sex. Or maybe he doesn't turn your key sexually.
This shouldn't be so much work.
Keep him informed about your thoughts and feelings. And maybe try cuddling, and have a couple days during the week YOU control the sensual activity. You may think some of your emotions and reactions are really obvious but really, they may not be to your guy. Many of us guys remain clueless and then are totally devastated if the woman gets exasperated and leaves. Talk to him again and again. I think we're too horny to hear and think at the same time.