Only older men approach me

So I've noticed only guys twice ny age ever approach me. I mean granted in super attracted to guys that age but I don't understand why men my age don't ever approach me. Do you guys have similar things going on? Is it normal?

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  • Bad101

    Even my fat female friend gets asked out by guys her own age. Not as much as her curvy or slim friends but there are a few guys interested in her at uni, even when she has a boyfriend.

    To be brutally honest it's probably because you're trans. I know they have less dating options (Most straight guys and lesbians and gay men arn't into it.), And trans people don't tend to date each other.
    I know a trans male who gets rejected 99% time by girls and asked out chicks a whole damn lot. Haha His voice gives him away as trans and his height, but he's a good looking enough for a dude, but looks like he's in his late teens even when he's in his late 20s (another give away of being a trans male for him personally he told me).

    Noticed old dudes go for easy chicks or the what ever they think they have a chance at. I've seen old dudes be cute to hot girls, but they'ed never ask them out. More just fun cheeky flirting.

    And young guys do ask people out their own age, we got so many dating apps and hook up apps to prove that. Lol

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    • curious-bunny

      Mmm yea that's true, besides my apple I am rather tall.. Yea it 0robably is, when it isn't tourist season this is a smaller town so I'm sure word is out of the tranny at my store. That's a shame for your friend though, I'm so glad im not a trans guy, that would be brutal

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      • Bad101

        Yeah he's just one of the ones who finds it hard to pass, guess hormones effects everyone differently.
        But there's another trans dude who's good friends with one of my female friends who looks really masculine (has a full blown beard and he's ripped. Lol
        Help that he tall as well. He's dated a few girls but most were from the LGBT (so bi), but met them at some LGBT events or friends recommended them.

        Yeah definitely give LGBT dating apps a go if you like, and single and ready to mingle. Lol or go to some LGBT events if you like hanging around that type of group.

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        • curious-bunny

          Apps are definitly good, once i go back out there I'll for sure be in some

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          • Bad101

            Cool and good luck. :)

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  • Probably because you are not a real women. Old dudes are just desperate and don't care "life's short" they say

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    • curious-bunny

      Ha, if it wasn't for my apple you wouldn't even know I have a penis so yea

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      • Na I would be able to tell! And if I couldn't, Well, well done.

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      • Nikclaire

        Everyone has an Adams apple

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        • Muser

          That is true, but it's usually way more prominent in males.

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    • Nikclaire

      Lmfao

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  • Maybe because men your own age have better options out there.

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  • Taylorvai

    Why because your probably ugly as fuck shitty personality or are a straight lame why don't u approach the guy and the reason old guys approach u is well they think that's all they can get probably and

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    • curious-bunny

      I've been avoided and ignored about 90% of my life saying I'm shy and lack social skills is a bit of an understatement. Quite litterally in 7th grade most the school forgot i even existed and this was a small town school

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      • RoseIsabella

        Oh my gosh, I'm sorry!

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      • Bad101

        Maybe try an LGBT dating app or sites to meet people if your single.
        That get you more chance of interaction.

        I know a shy friend met their girl friend through our friendship group, but they were using a dating app before to go out on dates. That worked for them.

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        • curious-bunny

          I know I just mean in person

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          • Bad101

            Oh right. There are events as well or clubs.

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  • leggs91200

    Younger men have little confidence usually. They are chock full of hormones and want to ask women out but at the same time are not always sure what to say. They are also terrified of rejection.

    Older men are not as horny and just do not give a rat's ass if someone says "no".

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    • Bad101

      Most guys don't ask girls out in America?? The country that made Tinder, eHarmony,Bumble and etc???
      If that was true the human race population would be declining there like it is in Japan. Lol

      All my male friends have asked out at least one girl in the past 2 years of they were single, or asked and ended up just having a hookup. And it's very easy to get hook up in this day an age. Can even meet a lot of girls who just want fun but no strings attached. Where's the fear in rejection of that?

      It's rare to see girls ask guys out because of tradition and maybe fear of rejection. Seems like that in the land down under.

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      • curious-bunny

        Very true, problem being in notoriously shy and not good at social interaction. So asking soneone out would be very difficult

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        • Bad101

          Yeah that makes it much harder. :/

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          • curious-bunny

            Yea it does! In your head you be like oh he is cuuute! In person your like uhh bye-running away noises

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            • Bad101

              Haha yep.
              I've tried to be a wing man for my shy friend. He ditched me with the girl, and I ended up with the girls number myself. Lol
              But I scraped it not interested.

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    • curious-bunny

      Mmm that makes sense. Yea I can respect that, it definitly makes sense

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  • 1ne8ight7even

    Old men always hit on the younger ugly girls.

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    • curious-bunny

      Wow no need to be mean

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    Yeah, I've had that issue at my job. Though for me it's both guys who are way too old and guys that are way too young. On a good day of sleep I look 16, not 30, so I'm guessing that's why or something.XD

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  • SwickDinging

    Wow, douchey comment section lol.

    Older guys are more confident. Also, you say you're really shy - again, older guys tend to be into that. They prey on younger women a bit. I don't necessarily mean that in a bad way, I just think that younger guys aren't as into the shy thing, whereas the older ones find it hot and like the chance to be in charge and sweep you off your feet.

    And hey, at least you get asked out! Hardly ever happens to me. The day I put a wedding ring on it's like I became invisible lol.

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    • curious-bunny

      Ikr! Some people just arnt able to be nice I guess.
      Ah yea that does make sense, I can understand that, it would be pretty hot to be swept off my feet by an older guy. Haha yea married guys are a weird thing, somehow they have a certain pull towards them, I dont know maybe I'm just notorious at wanting whst I can't have when it comes to men

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  • LloydAsher

    Guys always want something younger then themselves. Its kinda how we operate. More fertile more filled with energy, more attractive.

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  • You probably look twice your age.

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  • leggs91200

    I will have to check out the kik thing later, I am not sure how it works. Yeah I am approaching technophobe age.
    Is that really the user name?

    Relationships -

    I have a room mate but no relationship. I prefer dating women but that would take a lot of work. I prefer to be single.
    OK well, let me put it painfully honest -
    I would like a relationship BUT I am not willing to get off my ass to look for one. Being MTF and trying to date women is a bit tricky.
    I used to date this one guy a few years back and even though he was a true gentleman, his looks and hygiene left something to be desired.
    Kind of a drag cause he paid for dates, didn't grope or talk about sex other than in the bedroom (where it belongs) and yeah. A "10" in personality but umm, not nquite a "10" in looks.

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    • curious-bunny

      I'm afraid i don't know what a technophobe is, kik is basically free texting it's great, just click the plus in the bottom right then find people. Yea that's my user name haha, I made it when I was younger and more immature, 1788 days ago to be exact haha. Ahh I understand fully, I have similar issues with my bf. Tgen he made the mimistake of getting drunk and calling me a worthless cunt. Let's just say we don't share the bed anymore. That and he doesnt even brush his teeth it's absoloutly disgusting.

      But yea being lesbian and mtf oh boy that's a disaster recipe. I'm sorry your dealing with that

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      • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth

        Tell him to atleast brush them in the morning before he leaves the house. Jesus christ.

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        • curious-bunny

          Haha yea he would just give me shit. He's a bit of a dick

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          • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth

            Id rather get shit than have a boyfriend with smelly breath 24/7

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            • curious-bunny

              He drinks so much alchol and chews so much gum you can't even tell tbh

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  • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth

    Probably because you're hot and dudes your age are PC pussies

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    • curious-bunny

      Haha you've seen me you tell me if I'm hot. But maybe yea that does make sense. I suppose it's a good think I like older men

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      • leggs91200

        I am curious about your looks too. No I am not some "Tranny chaser" cause I am TG myself, but I am not hot.

        Usually, on the rare occasion some guy flirts with me, he is my age but NOT attractive.

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  • dude_Jones

    Involuntary cues like pupil dilation, tell guys your own age that you don't like them.

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    • curious-bunny

      Really? Hmm that is interesting. Shit never thought about that. Fuck that's also bad. I suppose that means all the men I've crushed on probably knew it

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      • dude_Jones

        Only very perceptive men can tell.

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        • curious-bunny

          Hmm good to know

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