Once or ...?

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i used to believe that people can love only once in life.i loved one guy and thought he is the only one for me.but we broke up.after some years when i loved again i felt too guilty.i started to think which feeling was true-first or second? cause i trusted that i would love only once.so i kept to blame myself and try clarify which of them was sincere.so is it possible to love more than one time and each of them be true? Is it normal that I believe in one true love?

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  • kyanviado
    12 years ago | pl

    Don't find the perfect one to love, find the one to love and make him perfect

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  • InsertBlankHere
    12 years ago | pl

    Wtf is love and how do you know you've experienced it?

    Basically all you have to evaluate is if you could live happily with someone for the rest of your life and raise children with them. Love is such a "magical" concept. There is no one true love; that's only in fairy tales. Art imitates life, but the print is in black and white; life is in color. There is a whole spectrum of possible "loves."

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  • AngAnders112
    12 years ago | pl

    we're not meant to love just once on life. life is long and they are too many people on this planet to just love one for all that time. love as hard as you can with someone, get over it and do the same with someone else. as many times as possible.

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  • ryanthony
    13 years ago | pl

    I believed in this once...

    But then I fell in love again...

    and again...

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  • squeegela
    13 years ago | pl

    As an adult/ maturing towards adulthood, u r always changing. The experience you have make you someone else. It's impossible for you to only love once as you aren't the same person forever

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  • gowila
    13 years ago | pl

    You should realise that not all your beliefs are realistic or true. I have loved more than once and loved in different ways. You will find as you mature your love will be more controlled and you will appreciate your lovers more

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    This is a good question. I think it's possible to love more than once. I just think as you grow older and mature that you love more. Or I dunno. Maybe if you find someone who is right for you then you will love them more than any other person before hand.

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  • AtomicCollider
    13 years ago | pl

    I also believe in one true love. I think it's just extremely rare to find that perfect one, though. It's just that we meet people that comes close to being that perfect one.

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  • kathleenalice
    13 years ago | pl

    You can love many people at different times in life, they are all different so you have different love for then

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  • sportsmom
    13 years ago | pl

    I have heard that you get 3 true loves, but in reality I don't think there's a set number. Quit feeling guilty, you can definitely love more than once. Good luck.

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