I feel sorry for you and the kids. What is wrong with your husband that he doesn't want to be involved with his own children? I don't understand... How do the kids react to him? They must be very confused. If your husband seriously doesn't want anything to do with them, it's best to not even have them be subjected to his lack of parental guidance. What kind of a message does this send to the children? They must feel unloved when they are with him. Why prolong the torture... I would talk to him about giving up custody if that is what he wants. Ask him. See what he says. He has to "pay" to raise them until they are 18, and if he doesn't want them around and isn't interested in raising them himself, he should give up custody. Then he won't have to pay child support. When they turn 18, they can decide if they want to have a relationship with him or not. I find this very sad, very very sad. Not just for the children but for the man who helped bring these people into the world. So many men and women want children but can't have them, and then people like him who do have them and don't care... Well they don't deserve to have them. He needs to give them up. I apologize if this sounds harsh, but his behavior is beyond comprehension. He needs to make a decision and quickly. Those kids probably already hate him... Why continue to force them to be with someone who doesn't care about them. They need love. They need a positive living environment. What is he teaching them by doing what he is doing. Think about the kids, and their future. Think about their psyche, and how they will interact with other adult role models based on their patents behavior. HE is creating monsters. HE needs to know that what he is doing is damaging his children. I hope you can find a way to help this man realize what he has done, and what he needs to do in the BEST INTEREST OF THE CHILDREN!
omg single mother of three part deux
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I feel sorry for you and the kids. What is wrong with your husband that he doesn't want to be involved with his own children? I don't understand... How do the kids react to him? They must be very confused. If your husband seriously doesn't want anything to do with them, it's best to not even have them be subjected to his lack of parental guidance. What kind of a message does this send to the children? They must feel unloved when they are with him. Why prolong the torture... I would talk to him about giving up custody if that is what he wants. Ask him. See what he says. He has to "pay" to raise them until they are 18, and if he doesn't want them around and isn't interested in raising them himself, he should give up custody. Then he won't have to pay child support. When they turn 18, they can decide if they want to have a relationship with him or not. I find this very sad, very very sad. Not just for the children but for the man who helped bring these people into the world. So many men and women want children but can't have them, and then people like him who do have them and don't care... Well they don't deserve to have them. He needs to give them up. I apologize if this sounds harsh, but his behavior is beyond comprehension. He needs to make a decision and quickly. Those kids probably already hate him... Why continue to force them to be with someone who doesn't care about them. They need love. They need a positive living environment. What is he teaching them by doing what he is doing. Think about the kids, and their future. Think about their psyche, and how they will interact with other adult role models based on their patents behavior. HE is creating monsters. HE needs to know that what he is doing is damaging his children. I hope you can find a way to help this man realize what he has done, and what he needs to do in the BEST INTEREST OF THE CHILDREN!