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So I got pregnant when I was 18 had an abortion because I wasn't ready, got pregnant again when I turned 19 had a miscarriage, and wanted to get pregnant again straight away! So I did LITERALLY! turned out to be 5 days after my natural miscarriage got to 10 weeks again and and misscarried, Is it normal that I want to keep getting pregnant?? :(
It sounds like psychologicly you really want a child but you knwo that you cant take care of it , but i think in your mind you never wanted the abortion or the misscariage and your mind is saying you really really want one . Although id advise till your financially able before you have one
No, it's not normal and it is one of the main causes of problems like crowded foster homes, welfare leeches, etc. A lot of chicks go through what you're going through and try to get pregnant out of sheer biological instinct/drive and they end up with a kid that they didn't want who will most likely be raised by their Mom or Dad, a dead-beat baby daddy, shot finances, and a child that was born into a world in which they have no father and a mother that was too selfish to see past her own biological desires.
Wait until you're ready, women who had kids before they were ready will tell you this as well. A baby is a HUGE responsibility that nails onto your life and consumes it. Even if you leave, that child will still be out there and your past will still come back to haunt you. Get help and find contentment with ruining your own life as oppossed to someone else's! Lose the spare time you would otherwise spend conceiving more kids with more dirtbags and get a job!
And yes, abortion does raise the chances that you will have fertility problems later on down the road. It is a vaccuum going into your uterus and sucking out the contents. May be safer than a coat hanger but no medical procedure is 100% safe.
Do you want to be pregnant, or do you want to have a baby? BIG difference. Love this child before it is even created in your womb and make sure you are emotionally and financially ready. I hope your future child has an amazing father. Hard to tell from your message, but please don't think only of what YOU want, but what a child means for the REST of your life. Re: the miscarriages, perhaps you need to speak to a doctor if you haven't already. Don't know if there is an increased risk of miscarriage following an abortion. And I wouldn't be surprised if this intense desire to be pregnant right now has everything to do with unresolved feelings regarding the abortion you had.
why would you get pregnant then have an abortion (commit murder) because you were not ready did you ever here of birth control. then a year later get pregnant again and your ready now wow! do you realise theres women out there that will do anything to have a baby and can't. and girls like you just murder babies because your immature. i kno what its like i had a baby at 18 i wasnt fully ready but i made myself ready and i have a beautiful smart awesome daughter.