Obsessed with girl who i had crush on 10 years ago

It seems like every other night I'm having a dream about lying around getting it on with this one girl Jen i used to have a crush on in college. She wasn't even that pretty. I never had Jen in real life, and we were 'just friends' for years. I've had many girlfriends since then...and i'm even engaged now. But still for years I fantasize every night of getting it on with this one ratty girl & i don't even know where the hell she lives anymore...it's so annoying...

Is It Normal?
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  • You Sir, have the sudden cases of regret.

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  • Normal. I know of this one girl who I met on a vacation about a year ago. I fell head over heels for her. Even though we never got past flirting, and I only knew her for two days, I still fantasize about her almost every night. She wasn't even that pretty either. I've had other crushes since then, but nothing like her. It was really odd for me, but I say that it's normal.

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  • lolz

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  • A shrink will tell you she represents something else- like the one thing you didn't do before giving up all your freedom...

    I don't know- go bungie jumping, take a trip, do whatever you feel you will no longer be free to do after you are married...

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  • I have had the same experience! There was a girl who I was too scared to ask out, so I never did. I have always wondered what happened to her.

    Have you ever seen the movie: "serendipity"?

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