Not wanting to lick vagina
Hi. Is it normal not to want to lick vaginas, doesn't seem very healthy?
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Hi. Is it normal not to want to lick vaginas, doesn't seem very healthy?
Nobody has to like doing anything. Two points I would make though:
First, if you're a guy, just as you have the right to refuse to put your mouth anywhere near a vagina, so you should understand that every woman you ever have sex with has the right to refuse to suck your cock, and you have no right to get pissy about that.
Second, making hard and fast rules about what you're willing to do and what you'll never, ever do when having sex is pretty damn stupid. If you do that, you're blocking yourself off from something that you just might find very enjoyable with a particular person at a particular time and in a particular setting.
My experience as a guy is that spending a little time learning about cunnilingus techniques and then spending more time focusing on unselfishly giving a woman pleasure can be a helluva lot of fun if she's able to relax and really get into it. Unfortunately, an awful lot of women have huge problems accepting that their own "down there" isn't disgusting.
Yeah, with most women there is a distinctive smell, but it's usually not overwhelming and it's only disgusting if you put yourself in a mindset where you believe it is. Licking a healthy pussy is not dangerous, since the vagina is a self-cleaning organ.