I know how you feel. I'm 27. I figutred by now I'd either have a kid or two, or that I'd at least be wanting one by now. But you know what? I don't. I'm married, and things are pretty good, but I really don't have any desire to have a baby. The thought of getting all fat, losing my figure, then going through painful child birth, and then giving up all my spare time and giving up my life for a child (or two) simply does not appeal to me right now. And you're right.. how do you act around one? I know this sounds odd, but what do you do with a crying baby? Yes they need to eat, be changed, sleep, etc... but sometimes they cry and cry, and they won't stop. So yeah, I really don't think I'm ready for a baby yet. I guess I'm kinda selfish too. But don't get me wrong, I love kids... I just don't want one of my own yet... if ever! I have a niece who I love very much, and I guess she keeps me busy enough, lol. Anyway I might think about having kids when I'm 30-something, but for now I am going to live my life for me... and try to enjoy it! :)
Not sure if I want a baby
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I know how you feel. I'm 27. I figutred by now I'd either have a kid or two, or that I'd at least be wanting one by now. But you know what? I don't. I'm married, and things are pretty good, but I really don't have any desire to have a baby. The thought of getting all fat, losing my figure, then going through painful child birth, and then giving up all my spare time and giving up my life for a child (or two) simply does not appeal to me right now. And you're right.. how do you act around one? I know this sounds odd, but what do you do with a crying baby? Yes they need to eat, be changed, sleep, etc... but sometimes they cry and cry, and they won't stop. So yeah, I really don't think I'm ready for a baby yet. I guess I'm kinda selfish too. But don't get me wrong, I love kids... I just don't want one of my own yet... if ever! I have a niece who I love very much, and I guess she keeps me busy enough, lol. Anyway I might think about having kids when I'm 30-something, but for now I am going to live my life for me... and try to enjoy it! :)