I'm in my early 30s and have decided not to have children.. As long as I can remember I've never wanted kids, and my family and friends are starting to understand that and even respect it. The thing I still hear from my grandmothers is 'one day you will wish you had kids so they can take care of you when you are old' I think that is not nearly a reason to have children! I've made my decision and although my husband originally wanted kids, he has come to understand and respect this decision, and we have agreed together that it's just not for us.
You can make your own decision and learn to feel comfortable in your decision.. Your family and friends will adjust and learn to respect it. Children are not for everyone.. If you have doubts give it alot of thought first, and discuss it openly with your husband.
Not sure if I want a baby
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I'm in my early 30s and have decided not to have children.. As long as I can remember I've never wanted kids, and my family and friends are starting to understand that and even respect it. The thing I still hear from my grandmothers is 'one day you will wish you had kids so they can take care of you when you are old' I think that is not nearly a reason to have children! I've made my decision and although my husband originally wanted kids, he has come to understand and respect this decision, and we have agreed together that it's just not for us.
You can make your own decision and learn to feel comfortable in your decision.. Your family and friends will adjust and learn to respect it. Children are not for everyone.. If you have doubts give it alot of thought first, and discuss it openly with your husband.