Not romantic....help?

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ok, here goes, I try to be a romantic person IE: buy my girl gifts, and stuff like that, but it never seems like I do enough? I don't know its hard to explain, but how do I do things that would be more "romantic" I read up on it online and crap like that, and me and my girl have been together for forever, but I dunno, I am not a romantic person, any tips?

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  • JustDave
    12 years ago

    Leave cash on the dresser in the morning.

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  • fcbarca2011
    12 years ago

    set up a Romatic Dinner one day and surprise her , even if you had to buy stuff that`s already made ( candels , roses, food, ..) , but make sure you don`t go on public at that time , make it in a place where you guys can stay alone together , play some romantic piano music while you guys are eating !!
    - write something for her Even on a Paper ( poetry, or a little speech) , just make sure it comes from your heart and it`s adressed to her.

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  • Racoon
    13 years ago

    You could just try to let her know when you think of her, like a little text when she's at work .

    Or give her a coffee with whatever she usually puts in, it seems stupid but she will be happy to know that you remember what she likes. It shows that you pay attention to her.

    There is two kind of persons
    1) someone that would rather have 1 rose everyday for 12 days . (more about the little attentions )

    2) someone that would rather have a huge bouquet of 12 roses ( more about the show and to impress their entourage)

    so find out how she is , and try to please her according to her view of what is romantic.

    ps; sorry for my english.

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  • MarijuAtheist
    13 years ago

    Maybe you should date a girl who appreciates the things you do.

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  • wubi15
    14 years ago

    maybe you are afraid to be criticized by others if they saw you being romantic or maybe you are finding it boring or very cheesy for a man to be romantic. if that's so, you are normal just from now. at the long-run, it is not. you need to change it. being a man is not an excuse to be soft at times, especially on women.

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  • Geetarman1989
    14 years ago

    hmmm, obviously you tell her you love her everyday, compliments ect ect everyday right? when my girl starts going on say ''your my life and i never want to lose you...ive waited so long to have a guy like you'' blah blah she goes on forever and i just think....ohhh for gods sake here we go again..(eyes roll) im not romantic at all...but if your commiting 150 percent....then thats all that matters i guess

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