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My wife will not let me touch her, or even get the opportunity to turn her on! We have been together for 20 years and I'm starting to feel real resentment towards her. I love her so much, and she holds this power over me that when she even looks at me a certain way I Melt!! I just Need to know that I still turn her on!! BUt at this point I'm so frustrated with the issue that the anger is pouring out of me.. Please anyone am I dumb or should I just let it go?
You have to ask her if she loves you. If she says no you need to prepare to move on from her
I am a bi male. I have been with several married men whose wives do not give them any sex. I am sorry for them but happy for myself. I suck them and let them breed me. I had one guy even go as far as make me put on his wives panties and nighty so he could fuck me anally
Let me say this in a different way.. During Love Making my wife really wont let me venture out and be Myself and Love her body parts. For instance Her Boobs!! I love her breast and ive always let her be known to that information.. But its been 20 years and I don't know why its so hard for her to open up herself to me.. She says its the strong obsession for her to be in control, and ive given her control but I just want to know that I still turn her on!! We in no way are separating, Nor am I leaving her!! I don't know maybe she'll open up in the next 20 years to come!! Thanks to everyone who commented!
Ask her what the problem is before coming into some incorrect conclusion.
Unleash ur anger throw logic and resason to the wind and throw ur wife down and have your way with her
Won't even let you touch her? No future for you two if that continues. Talk to a good divorce lawyer. Divorce is a leading cause of bankruptcy.
This is why I would never commit myself to someone. I don't have a need for multiple partners, and would want to stay friends. But I would never promise a person that I would stay with them forever, for this reason, because I need physical intimacy as a central need. And I cannot expect another person to always want that.
She might just not want it. Maybe it makes her uncomfortable. Or maybe there’s something wrong. Talk to her.
I think this relationship might be over. You should try and talk about this to your partner. It's going to be very scary, but it's better to know. Just stand in front of her and tell him how you feel and how you love her, but being intimate is important to you (and that is completely normal part of a relationship). And ask her if she loves you still. Be prepared she might say no. If suspect that. And then, although very painful (you seem to be a loving, feeling kind of guy), you have to let her go. Or if she still feels something for you, you will both need to work on it hard to have a more intimate and happy relationship.
Talk to her,if she still refuses to let you have sex with her,then I'd say it's time to leave and find a woman who wants it as much as you do
I never said I was leaving!! Ive been loyal for 20 years!! I love her dearly!
Part of getting married is also for sex,remember the forsaking all others part in your vows,that has partly to do with sex