Normal to lie about when and how i met my boyfriend?

Met him while he was with his previous gf. We met on tindr. And were spending time together when he was with her and he would tell her he was hanging with friends. No one knew but us.

So when someone asks how we met 5 months back I lie say 4 months back and that we met at Starbucks.

Normal?

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67% Normal
Based on 9 votes (6 yes)
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  • So you helped him cheat it sounds? That’s shitty. If he cheated on her, he’s going to on you and either way your still half to blame because you knew he was taken. And idk why you’d want that, someone who’s going to run around on you. Why not be straight up to people that your a shitty person and talked to a taken dude. Or that you have a shitty dude who created a tindr taken and talked to other girls and hung out lying to his current as if he was with “friends”

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  • animallover5

    Yes this is very normal, A lot of people lie. But there's a difference between a white lie that you just don't want to hurt someones feelings and there there's a straight up I don't wanna get caught lie. It's just up to you to know right from wrong. And to me personally in most cases if you do something and can't tell people the truth about it, most likely you shouldn't of done it/ doing it. But thats not in all cases.. foe Example: If someone is gay and they haven't come out of the closet yet because of of there fear of how their family will react. Especially if they are a certain religion that is against gays. But in this case, yeah it's normal, is it right no. You're not telling anyone the truth because you're afraid of people judging you for what you did. Which honestly you shouldn't of done that. but hey that's just my opinion. All I know is that i'd punch you in the face if I was that girl and found out what you did. Also before you do things like this you have to think to yourself how you would feel if the roles were reversed.

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  • lordofopinions

    Sure. Why bother bringing the past into it as it will just complicate things. Maybe you DID meet up at Starbucks after meeting on tindr?

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  • BigTiddyGothGfPls

    This is completely normal. Dunno why that twerknhbu is getting butthurt from your story... But yes it is normal to make up a lie to hide the truth

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    • I’m not butthurt I’m just speaking how I feel on this and got the right to say that. Why else would they post that unless they wanted input in no way am I butthurt I could care less about the situation idk who tf they are they wanna have a shit relationship that’s on them. Just in my opinion was a complete shit thing to do. Lying makes any situation worse better to be stright up about yourself.

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