I wouldn't be torn up about it if the relationship had happened in Oklahoma or a different state because then it wouldn't have been statutory rape and I wouldn't be a child rapist. It's weird to think that the location makes such a huge difference to the evil of an act, but it does.
Yep - which is partly why I feel it might be a bad idea to turn myself against my ex's wishes as they'd potentially also be held legally responsible and I imagine she'd be quite upset / pissed off about this.
So if the girl and the parents didn't mind and nobody is making a fuss then what is the issue? The statute of limitations may be up by now. They have to press charges but aren't going to. I should have stuck with my first impression.
The issue is simply that I feel really consumed by daily guilt over the fact that I committed statutory rape. Since no-one is going to press charges, I don't know how I can stop beating myself up about it.
Normal to kill self after perpetrating statutory rape? (21 / 16-17)
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Yeah but what state? The AoC is 14-18 depending.
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Texas, where the AoC is 17, sadly.
I wouldn't be torn up about it if the relationship had happened in Oklahoma or a different state because then it wouldn't have been statutory rape and I wouldn't be a child rapist. It's weird to think that the location makes such a huge difference to the evil of an act, but it does.
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Did her parents know and give consent?
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Yep - which is partly why I feel it might be a bad idea to turn myself against my ex's wishes as they'd potentially also be held legally responsible and I imagine she'd be quite upset / pissed off about this.
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So if the girl and the parents didn't mind and nobody is making a fuss then what is the issue? The statute of limitations may be up by now. They have to press charges but aren't going to. I should have stuck with my first impression.
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The issue is simply that I feel really consumed by daily guilt over the fact that I committed statutory rape. Since no-one is going to press charges, I don't know how I can stop beating myself up about it.
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Be thankful that it turned out okay and don't do it anymore.
OK now I know this is bullshit!
Her parents "knew and gave consent"!!!
"excuse me Mr & Mrs Smith could I please fuck your daughter"
"Don't see why no, you kids have fun"
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I mean, they knew we were dating and we were allowed to sleep in the same bedroom.