Normal to fantasize about older men?

I'm 21 and altough I see myself as mostly straight. I fantasize about older men, well truth I fantasize about men and women, but older men pry the most.
I dont think I'm gay because when I see myself falling in love its defintely with a woman, and I also really like to look at hot girls.

Is It Normal?
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  • You don't have to have everything in common to have a good relationship, and you don't have to have ANYTHING in common to have good sex. What you like is what you like, and nobody can tell you it's wrong as long as everyone involved is a consenting adult.

    I'm an older guy (47) who loves younger women. I find them delightfully open-minded, fun, and unspoiled compared with women my own age. . . and I like to be with someone who is young and hot enough for me to physically worship in bed.

    The problem for me is that I feel like I can't make the first move on the women I'm interested in, for fear of being creepy. I'm up for a relationship but not clingy or jealous or needy, so if a young woman is interested, she just needs to let me know, and let me know what her boundaries are.

    So, do you live in Northern California? I'd love to meet some interested young women! :)

    Write me: atomdebris(at)gmail(dot)com

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  • Sounds like you may be at least bi-curious, I'm not sure how common it is but when i was younger (im 22) and even now I have an attraction to older individuals. Its to the point where i didn't want to date people my age.
    I first noticed it when i was i think 11 or 12. I had a strange attraction to large chested older woman and burly hairy older men( on a few occasions).
    human sexuality can be strange and i would gander that no one actually lives a "straight and normal" life

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