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Sometimes my gf is over and i sometimes want her to just go home so i can touch myself. she isnt bad at sex and is extremely attractive. I usually masturbate to the thought of her actually. I just find that noone can sexually please me as well as i can, becuase i know exactly what feels good. am i normal?
First off, if this was about a girl I could understand the female input. But since this is about a man I don't think I would take advice from a women, nor should she from me if it was reversed.
Now to start, "stop being gay with yourself," c'mon thats probably one of the most idiotic things I've heard about masturbation. Why i don't like the two comments about "teaching us" is because its completely different. Sex and masturbation is like mars and pluto. Sex feels great because its interaction with another human being that adds multiple scenarios to the equation. Masturbation on the other hand is a controlled isolate environment that can involve imagination or erotic material.
I'm in the same boat, some days i like to just masturbate cause i can take my time and act upon the fantasy i want. Sex is great too because masturbating gets boring without a break. I am in a stable relationship and I masturbate almost everyday and have sex about every third day. I enjoy my me time and enjoy my partner time. So to summarize i wouldn't look at it that you like masturbating more, somedays you just need that time to yourself. This is not a bash on women for technique or effort, just a simple truth that guys just want to touch themselves sometimes.
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You need to show her. Once you show her, then she will probably be able to satisfy your needs even better. I can see why you feel this way, but I think it is possible for you to enjoy sex better than masturbating. I think you just haven't got the girl doing the right technique and it's not bad to teach the person you're with how to do that!