Normal? probably not.

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hello
I have this boyfriend, we have been together 6 months now, I know it's not that long but I always think about him and I always want to see him and I have tried to stop and if it was up to me I would see him every day, but I don't say that to him or anything.

I want to wake up and want to want to catch up with my best friends for the day like I used to..but instead I just want to see him, even if I have made plans with someone else, I would probably prefer to see him.

I just feel obsessed and hate it. I want to think of other things and focus on school, my friends and my actual life. I don't want him to become my whole life..but it feels like he is. I love him a lot (obviously) and I'm happy with him..I just don't think that it is normal to feel so emotionally attached to someone. so you tell me.

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  • disthing
    12 years ago

    I had a girlfriend who was like this. For me it wasn't great, because I needed space sometimes, and she took that personally. She wanted to see me every day, whereas I could only happily deal with a few days a week before feeling a little too tied down and getting a bit irritable.

    It depends on how he feels. If he wants to be with you all the time, then that's perfect. If not, you just have to restrain yourself and compromise.

    I agree that it's in your own interest to maintain your other friendships - use the time you're not with him to keep them going, hang out with other people, have fun. That way, if it all does go downhill, you'll still have other people's support and friendship.

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  • theonewiththehair
    13 years ago

    Enjoy it while you still feel that way.

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  • cheesey_jelly
    13 years ago

    Normal. You love him, you want to be with him, he makes you happy. We are automatically attached to the people that we love and make our day brighter just by being around. If you don't have that, it's not true love. Human nature. Trust.

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  • Gabriell
    14 years ago

    NORMAl since you are young. I wish I could make out at that time with a person I loved that much :-(

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    i bet he broke up with you

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  • Chickadee
    14 years ago

    You're like the female Florentino Ariza from the book, Love in the Time of Cholera.

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