Normal it took my girlfriend 7 months until

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She allowed me to officially call her my girlfriend? For 7 months she said she didn't want to label it but now she's okay with it. I'm moving in with her next month so I'm sure we are great together because she wanted me to move in but the label thing is that normal?

She also won't let me put a profile photo up of me and her together on facebook for some reason but allows it on all other platforms but already got my boxes packed and she and I get along well

Any thoughts? Is it normal? We have fun together a lot and we make each other laugh.

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  • SkullsNRoses
    4 years ago | pl

    She’s ok to move in together but a Facebook picture together is too far? That makes no sense.

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    • WeirdManFromTheSouth
      4 years ago

      Red flag big time

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    • RoseIsabella
      4 years ago

      I know, right.

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      • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
        4 years ago

        or shes got somethin else goin on the side all along

        op is fallback choice

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        • McBean
          4 years ago

          Her ex may be a jealous psycho.
          Her father may be an over-protective psycho.
          Her mother may be a domineering psycho.
          Her sister may be a overly demanding psycho.
          Her coworker may be a poison bully psycho.
          Who knows? Psychos are everywhere.

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        • RoseIsabella
          4 years ago

          I hope not, but she seems weird.

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  • Jattai
    4 years ago

    She's hiding something for sure

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    • WeirdManFromTheSouth
      4 years ago

      Agreed

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  • Indigo1
    4 years ago

    seems strange... id be worried that she's trying to keep a separate online identity because it's only on one specific platform, it would beg the question, is she trying to hide me from someone... another lover... or idk anybody. does she make the relationship known at all in any way on fb?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      Well I did put on my page that I'm in a relationship with her months ago although she hid that on hers up until I kept bugging her and she finally let it show. You know where it says in a relationship with.. that. So I had it on mine but she hid hers.

      She hasn't uploaded a single photo of us to her page actually come to think of it but she says she's not into updating Facebook. she let's me upload to mine no problem I tagged a few but actually she untagged herself saying she doesn't like them. I tried twice now to add a photo of us as my profile photo but she says it's cheesy to have a couple photo up. But I'm moving in with her so that means it's fine right?

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      • Meowypowers
        4 years ago

        Sounds shady af

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      • Indigo1
        4 years ago

        i mean all could be fine. but there are a few red flags id say, nothing to abort mission over , or cause conflict over, but certainly enough for a watchful eye. does she use Facebook at all? if she does than at the very least to me there seems to be potentially someone/many people on facebook in which she cares greatly for whatever reason the opinion they hold of her. It could be someone in her past, maybe just high school friends, and for whatever reason there is an embarrassment of you. thats not necessarily terribly bad though, alot of social media is driven by out of control ego's ( hence why i stopped) but If she doesn't post at all or very rarely, or never post anything all that personal, i definitely get the idea of wanting an internet death, like just wanting to stop posting anything personal or anything at all

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  • mia500
    4 years ago

    Sounds like she doesn't wanna go public about the relationship and you sound like you're starting to put the pieces together... I would be very careful about this because I'm guilty of behavior like this in my past. I was with this guy that I wasn't physically attracted to & disliked some aspects of his personality. I would never do this now but back then I would just lead him on for fear of being lonely/alone

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  • greenkernel
    4 years ago

    Definitely you are sharing that hole with someone else, good luck with that

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  • WeirdManFromTheSouth
    4 years ago

    Chances are she has some boyfriend or fuckbuddys that she talks to on facebook. If you really want to get to the bottom of it put spyware on her phone. Theres some websites that make it very easy. You'll see all her facebook messages and texts.

    Sorry dude theres definitely someone else in the picture.

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  • [Old Memory]
    4 years ago

    Glad she is not my girlfriend!

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  • Doesnormalmatter
    4 years ago

    Not normal at all mate. Not sure what is her problem but it probably ain't a huge deal.

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  • JellyBeanBandit
    4 years ago

    She could be concerned about Facebook's privacy problems. Bit weird about not wanting you to call her your girlfriend for so long though.

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